When it come to redpill dating they say dont show emotions and dont be vulnerable, so its all about stoicism. My problem is when in a LTR or just begun LTR or somewhat potential should i not let the woman see that im struggling or improving or has plans to improve etc? I mean financial wise as well as daily struggles, such as building a house or home, and repairing my car which is pending,or plans to migrate or something i wish to have in 2-3years which i save money now etc, should i not let her know im currently struggling but i have plans? Or is it weakness to show these, so should i hold all these thoughts plans and downs in my life and appear as perfect, while holding all inside? Im not talking about whine, im talking about future plans goals etc. if i tell all these will she see it as weakness? Do not tel me to tell things to your guy friends as i dont trust them snakes. And is it beta to tell a woman that in beginning of the relationship to that do not waste my time if she has plans to cheat on me or have second thoughts,as i have other things to focus all i just want a solid partner etc. im implying is i have other things to focus so if she plans fo play around just leave,, is it beta to tell that?