How to respond to a breakup?

I_Dont_Type · 2022-07-13T18:04:15+00:00

The old Seinfeld trick, break up with her first.

LlGHT_YAGAMl · 2022-07-13T22:28:27+00:00

Say ok and walk away. Dont say good bye, hug her, etc. No closure for her. Don’t respond to any of her texts

Nearby_Ad_5684 · 2022-07-13T19:26:41+00:00

Do uno reverse and block her on everything

Taipoe · 2022-07-13T19:33:40+00:00

Break up first if you know for sure ig. If she breaks up with you then best reaction is none at all and act unphased by it

throwitdownman · 2022-07-13T21:20:47+00:00

Attraction cannot be negotiated. Women also breakup months before the actual ‘break up talk’. Don’t react nor talk - it won’t get you anywhere. ‘I see, bye’. Then block on socials for your own peace of mind.

Durantysonali · 2022-07-13T23:17:15+00:00

Like everyone said breakup first but be very stoic and nonchalant but block immediately afterwards.

When I dumped my gf I made the mistake of being too cold and explaining myself a little bit.

That-Potential-5684 · 2022-07-14T09:35:53+00:00

The best answer in the world: "Ok" with a calm face and go no contact.

AdmiralFiz · 2022-07-18T13:20:30+00:00

Ok, a lot of replies here concerning the immediate response in the moment, which is good, but make sure as time goes by you keep no contact.

Do not respond to her messages after the fact, do not stalk her socials, she is functionally dead as far as you are concerned.

If you're still invested in her you will try and rationalize reasons to reach out, do not do that, idc if her favorite band is coming to town, it is no longer your job to tell her etc

iJuiiCe_x · 2022-07-13T19:58:12+00:00

Say "when did we start?"

Title	How to respond to a breakup?
Author	neatbranch
Upvotes	6
Comments	13
Date	July 13, 2022 6:03 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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