12 phone numbers...no dates. wtf.

HappyJerk · 2014-01-18T20:26:50+00:00

Nobody knows what you are doing but here are some quick rules (I am actually writing a blog post about this right now).

1) Text them that night or next day to confirm you met them.

2) Then call them a few days later and give them a specific time and place to meet up. Don't give them multiple options and don't say wishy washy things like "we should hang out" or "when are you free"?

3) Make her feel like she has one shot to hang out with you

4) Make sure you only get girl's numbers after you have built attraction.

JohnCooperWrites · 2014-01-18T21:39:50+00:00

Getting lots of phone numbers and letting statistics do his work is a beginner mistake. I too was like that, until I asked myself how the interactions went. What was different between flakey numbers and solid numbers? I came to a surprising conclusion.

All my solid phone numbers were situations where the girl or me HAD to leave the interaction. And all my flakey numbers were when I voluntary left the interaction.

So here's my tip on solid phone numbers: 1. She really has to find you attractive 2. Stay as long as possible in set until it is natural you or she has to leave. That's the moment to get her number.

Here's my tip on getting phone numbers: 1. Don't ask for it. 2. Ask if she likes to meet each other again another time to grab a drink in a quiet place. Now you have a reason to get her number and you can say, "What's your number?"

stillnotperfect · 2014-01-18T19:58:55+00:00

If these numbers are acquired at a bar or a party, one tip is to continue talking to them for a minute or so after getting their number. This hints that you are genuinely interested in talking to her and not just going around asking for phone numbers from every other girl. I am not only suggesting you use this as a "trick", but that you should also be genuinely interested in the girl before approaching her.

Also, use texting to setup dates or the follow up messages only. Don't build attraction over text. Do that when you number close the targets. You could even try setting up dates right before the #-close during your day-games.

recyclablebantha · 2014-01-19T11:44:06+00:00

Ironically, the ones i had the best responses with in person didn't respond to text. and those are the ones I care about.

I'm guessing my text game is weak. Any help?

Most likely, you're wrong about the ones you thought were the "best" prospects.

But honestly, I don't know what kind of help you expect here. We're not mind-readers. You've asked for help about your text game and inferred that you need help with the process you've been going through to get phone numbers, but you've supplied pretty much ZERO information about those things. Until you do, this thread will be limited to speculation.

I had a wall last month.

You mean you HIT a wall last month. But this is a minor point.

Alphadestrious · 2014-01-19T02:12:25+00:00

Welcome to the most frustrating part of the game, but your conversion ratio should be better. Like others said, try to actually setup "meetups" while still talking to them around 5 - 10 minutes and after you exchange phone numbers still keep talking for a little bit longer. Then text them later to confirm you met, followed by the confirmation of the meetup you previously stated. If a girl is truly interested in you she will text you and agree. I only allow 2 flakes per girl. After that I don't waste my time. However, some people here give girls 1 chance only. It's all up to you. Good luck and keep pimpin'.

aerospace91 · 2014-01-19T03:58:59+00:00

I have a similiar issue right now. I texted an acquittance of mine that I've met twice in passing. Due to her dating a friend I didn't do anything but now that the air is clear I texted her and told I wanted get beer with her. She texted back saying maybe and she would let me know. Sure enough she actually texted me back the day before and said she was busy that day but she wants to reschedule and would love to hang out with me.

I put the ball in her court and told her to tell me the days she was free and then we might be able to work something out. I haven't heard from her since and it's been about 2 days.

Did I do the right thing? Or how can I proceed or improve for next

thehigheststatusmale · 2014-01-18T19:50:56+00:00

numbers mean nothing. girls give them out to everyone who asks.

start giving your number. its easier.

nofriends4me · 2014-01-18T22:24:58+00:00

you should just try and figure out where they live and surprise them.. girls love to be chased.

money666 · 2014-01-18T19:16:24+00:00

Yea man it sucks. Try doing instadates. I have had success there. But I haven't had any day 2s from a number close.

mickeysantacruz · 2014-01-19T02:13:02+00:00

Sounds more like a stalker...

Title	12 phone numbers...no dates. wtf.
Author	notquiteengineer
Upvotes	13
Comments	15
Date	January 18, 2014 7:10 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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