TLDR Dissecting the common problems guys on seddit are having with women and how to fix them so you can stop being a newbie and get real results.

PREFACE

If you are one of those "guys" that just are happy getting make outs don't read this. This is for people who actually want to get results and pull and fuck girls on a consistence bases, not the guys that want participation trophy's and to feel good by getting lied to about there lack of success with women, posting field reports to feel good about themselves and can't take constructive criticism.

This post is for newbies who have been in game for months and years with no results to show for it. Which is like 98% of seddit.

INTRODUCTION

You just found out about seduction and game, you have been at it for a couple months now, but you’re not improving, actually the only thing you have done so far is read models, because that’s just the thing to do when you start game, at least according to the ancient sidebar that hasn’t been updated in years. You can’t realize the mistakes you are making with women and when you ask for help on seddit you get conflicting answers from people that know as little as you do on the topic. It’s the blind leading the blind. Not only you, but your fellow newbies are blind. You want to be walking around with a cane like a pimp, but instead your walking around with a cane because of your game disability.

There are three mirrors you must adjust before backing up and continuing your gaming journey. They are the following and I'm going to break them down barney style, so you can see the light. These three things are the common problems with 98% of the posts I see on seddit.

  • Your misguided sense of morality in game
  • Your complete lack of awareness of anything outer game related
  • Your refusal to apply and acknowledge game as a skill set

YOUR MISGUIDED SENSE OF MORALITY IN GAME

It’s not your fault. You have been getting told since birth not to lie, cheat or steal, but when you look around it seems everybody that is successful in their fields of craft are the most narcissistic, machiavellian and psychotic people of them all. They must be, to get to the top, you must be willing to do what the average person can’t by using any means necessary. Guys like this, guys who have these dark personality traits are the guys women love the most. This isn’t even a debate. You have witnesses this yourself countless times and have read endless stories about some degenerate dude getting a girl, aka the fuckboy. The fuckboy is a dude that fucks endless number of women and everybody else is embarrassed that he’s getting laid, and they aren’t.

How is your morality getting in the way of your game?

One way is your refusal to accept female nature. You’re a good guy, you see women as these special beings capable of nothing wrong, but that is just not the reality of the situation. Reality is most women are disloyal not capable of settling down with one guy. It’s called hypergamy and it’s built into every woman on earth. This hypergamy drive is why “these hoes ain’t loyal”, it’s the reason schools and universities are banning preforming DNA tests in their science departments, because so many people don’t have the dads they really think they do and it’s the reason girls fuck PUA strangers even when they have loving devoted husbands back at home.

Now this truth might be uncomfortable, but you need to accept it and not judge women negatively about it calling them “sluts” it’s a drive to ensure a woman has the best alpha genes possible for her future offspring. All those negative traits you were taught you shouldn’t have are literally the same ones every woman on the planet unconsciously wants her offspring to have, because having those traits leads to higher survival/reproduction chances. The best way to ensure future kids have these traits is to literally fuck the guys that already have these degenerate traits. A women wants a man that doesn't give a fuck she is already taken.

So, it really pains me to see guys posting about “girl had a boyfriend, so I left the set” or “I’m not going to try anything with her because she has a boyfriend” and my favorite "I'm not that kind of guy" This is just rationalizing away your lack of results with women when you truly allow yourself to break it down and is a form of ego protection.

example the current number one post on here, fucking disgusting to me.

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7vdja0/the_fastest_eye_contact_to_makeout_i_have_ever/

Dude could have had a easy lay, but he let a shit test and his morals get in the way of results.

Game is hard enough, you’re only making it harder refusing to game girls with boyfriends from some misguided self-belief that since you are the guy that stands on the moral high ground that your better than the others that don’t. You’re not better, you’re a fucking idiot making the game harder for yourself.

If I didn’t fuck the wife’s and girlfriends of other dudes my total lay count would be cut over 60%, I would have lost 60% of my results, I would have lost 60% of my game because many of those lays are when I had my biggest game epiphany’s that made everything make sense, I would not have gotten good at game as fast as I did by having some useless sense of morals based on a fairytale. Good guys with these high moral codes lose in game and they lose at life and if we were back in caveman times they would be killed off.

The whole point of game is to take advantage of female hypergamy and use it against her by exploiting woman’s need to always be climbing social hierarchy ladders. You want to be that dick on top, both literally and metaphorically. It’s actually easier to fuck wife’s and girlfriends, because it adds so much more drama to the seduction process and women love this. Temptation is a hell of an aphrodisiac.

How do you change?

“Seducers take pleasure in performing and are not weighed down by their identity, or by some need to be themselves, or to be natural.”- Robert Greene in the art of seduction

I live by this quote, I live my life as it’s a theater and women are just actresses that need me to help them play out a drama filled scene with. She wants me to be that guy that doesn’t care she’s married, she wants me to be that guy that it just “ended up happening” with. She needs me to fulfill her fantasies, and I have no problem playing the role. Fulfill the role, fill her holes.

Seduction involves acting. Be anyone. Life is a theater and everyone is an actor. If you have this I can't game taken women/niceguy problem start pretending to be another person when your gaming. That way you can use the power of rationalization to your advantage. "it's not me hitting on this married chick, its so and so" like a gaming alter ego similar to how many people give the drunk version of themselves a name. You will see this all the time with college aged women. Sarah got drunk and fucked her best friends boyfriend, but it doesn't count, because she had something to drink, and it was actually Sally her drunk alter ego that did that, not her. It makes it so all the responsibility of your actions can be rationalized away and keep your ego safe.

My whole inner game is based around myself not having any inner game at all. It allows me freedom to be whoever I want to be in any situation without it affecting my sense of self. It's about having a sense of detachment from your actions. Just because you game a married chick does not make you a bad person, it does not define your sense of self who you are as a person.

It's why I don’t have any political party or religious beliefs, I don’t ever want to close off my brains thinking by following a strict ideology. It's like locking your thoughts in a jail cell. Instead my ideology is to not have ideology, because I don’t ever want to have liner closed off thoughts. Being so adamant about not fucking taken women is the definition of closed off thoughts. You are just throwing away potential results and maybe even some future good relationships.

Having useless morals in game is the exact opposite of what you want. Seduction and hypergamy are amoral. It doesn’t care. You meet that chick and stop gaming her because she has a husband, you leave the set, and watch her leave the club with another guy…that isn’t her husband.

If its not you, someone else is going to be hitting that pussy. She is going to cheat anyways, why not have it be you? Why not gain that experience? Why close yourself off to potential relationships?

What you need to do is

  • Read books about female psychology, sperm wars and the red queen are a good start
  • Start seeing taken girls as gameable sets
  • Realize how your sense of self is hurting your game

Part 2 will be about about why you can only get so far on inner game alone, how inner game really doesn't translate to results, and why you need outer game for consistence results.