A little question regarding Models

t1mman · 2017-03-15T12:52:49+00:00

Thing is, the lack of sexual experience is most likely the result of something else, not the cause. If you find and fix the cause, it will result in a balanced and healthy life, including sexual experience.

This is what I took from the book, lead a good, healthy, balanced and fulfilling life, people will revolve around you (including woman) and you will have more possibilities.

Improvement is a constant change mindset. It’s about doing the best you can, bettering yourself in every way you can. For example, if you set on running, you don’t settle at running a 5k, you push the distance further, for 10, half marathon, marathon or if you do settle for 5k, you try to break your best time over and over. Like learning the guitar, you don’t just stop when you know a song, you learn more and more. It a constant evolution mindset. You must celebrate every accomplishment, nonetheless, but you just set better et more goals. Our brain is made to reward our self when we do.

BTW: Don’t think of this as a “fast food” perspective, it’s not something you change overnight!! It takes times and discipline!

ab503 · 2017-03-15T12:47:57+00:00

There's no magic pill. You have to change who you are over time and with discipline. Join a gym if you haven't. The confidence that comes from looking and feeling better is a weird jumpstart into having the right mindset. Join a coed sports team. Join a book club. Volunteer. Do this with the intention of meeting women but not sleeping with them. Make friends with hot women. Only friends. Treat them like buddies because that's what they will be. Nothing more. Then you'll be comfortable around them and they'll be there as valuable support. Don't mention that you're a virgin, they'll suspect you don't get laid a lot or won't care. Never ever mention it, other than saying you've been focused on school too much and haven't had time for dating. But avoid that too. Less is more with women in this case.

When your life is filled with more friends, many of whom are women, you'll have more opportunities to meet women and you'll get the social validation that Manson mentions. People will see that you're comfortable around attractive women and that will come to be true. Once you get more women in your life platonically and you're feeling less insecure around them, you can make moves on NEW women who enter your life. By all means if you have chemistry with one of the aforementioned women go for it, but that shouldn't be your intention when setting up that group of friends. They are the platform of social validation from which you can go after new women.

Hope that helps.

Sad_Sleeper · 2017-03-17T15:54:24+00:00

First off stop thinking about your missed opportunities and the number of chicks that you haven't fucked.

Now about the improvement i will tell you how it works for me so far.

So to give you some hope, i am 25 and still virgin, i found out about seddit in august. Went on NoFap(this is a bit 50/50 it might work or it might not work for you.)It makes you way more horny and lowers your pornstar standards.

I started going to the gym and i started getting some results.My confidence was getting up, started dressing better and i have a nice haircut.i hooked up with one of the bridesmaids on a wedding and had my first ever kiss and makeout in the end of September. This was huge for me, i could have lost my vcard from this girl, but she was a bit chubby and i didn't liked her that much, or i was too much into my head. Things didn't worked out with this one, i didn't got Laid and most importantly i didn't get sad and depressed, i continued working on my better version.

Last month i decided to talk to one girl in the gym and got her name, had some interesting chat. Massive confidence boost, also i talked with a HB8.5 without being shy or thinking only about how beautiful she was, after that she didn't even responded to my text to meet up. But still i got my confidence pumped up.

On Sunday i will have a date with a colleague of mine from my old job, she's 32 really attractive and intelligent. Basically out of my league, but still she is interested so i will try my chances.

8-9 months ago i couldn't even keep a proper eye contact, now i can have a meaningful conversation with a hot girl.

So my mindset and the way of thinking is that i know i will get laid, because i am putting effort in improving myself. I am not thinking about when and with who, i just know it will happen sooner or later.

Eferg10575 · 2017-03-15T12:33:36+00:00

21 year old here, so take my advice with a grain of salt. I assume you simply just want someone to take notice of you and give you a sexual experience. Or do you want to find that "special one" and commit? I've recently gone through a breakup with a girl who I am simply in love with. We didn't officially date for a long time, maybe a month, but we've been involved with each other for a year. She left me for another guy. She was by no means the first girl I slept with, but she was the first girl I picked up without any previous history. Basically I just met her, felt an attraction, and talked to her. I talked to her everyday. It's easy to read if someone is interested in you or not. Whether or not they go out of their way to talk to you, or if they flirt with you. If you have feelings for them or are interested in them, MAKE IT KNOWN. Not always right away. Give it a few days or a week of talking. No more than that. And as crazy as it sounds, some girls may just love the fact that you're a virgin. They want to take advantage of that. Women love power and they want to feel like they're making their mark on you, so don't be afraid to tell them that. But make sure they know that you're a virgin and you're looking to lose it. Other than that- it's just a matter of finding the girl. Go to bars. Go to parties. You don't have to get drunk, but just go out. Meet friends of friends. Hell, ASK your friends if they know anyone. I met my ex at a music festival. Things can happen anywhere. Go to the library, and just talk to someone. I'm not going to sugarcoat it, if you're not decently attractive then an approach in the library or any other place like that may not work. I would shoot for friends of friends and that type of thing. Good luck to you man, no matter what though; living your life the best you can, as kindly as you can, and as brave as you can is the key to a happy end. Take care.

samuelpua · 2017-03-15T22:22:28+00:00

I don t want to be arrogant or something but I have an handicap do you think it was easy for me to get laid ? Flirt with women hit on them go on dates....You know what ? I had 2 choises 1) sit at home and complain about my life 2) Just put myself out there and try = doesn t work ok I try again doesn t work I try try try try try....Also was it easy for me fuck no....Even here sharing my deepest thing which is my handicap is kinda difficult for me but If this can help a dude get back and hussle I ll do it it anyway...

1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v · 2017-03-15T17:09:17+00:00

what's the point of living your life if you will always be a weak sucker who cowers before women, right?

No. If you are willing, you can be taught the social skills, body language, flirting, escalation techniques ,and style that will allow you to talk to and date women.

how long does it take to go from nothing to someone?

How motivated are you? How willing and able are you to do the things necessary to change your life and attitude? I expect 3-6 months if you are really motivated and dedicated. Realistically, 6-12 months.

Are you willing and motivated?

(IMHO, most of the whiners are not willing...and some are just not able.)

You seem like a smart, educated, and well rounded guy. Nothing should stop you from obtaining anything you want in this life, including girls. I can help you. (Other can help you.) But only if you are willing to try...

Title	A little question regarding Models
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Date	March 15, 2017 12:17 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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