Hey evebody, I would like to share a little-known secret with you I came across after a lot of hours of studying subliminal psychology. If you want to pick up girls and you are good at starting a conversation and so on, but something goes wrong when you are about to ask them to give you their phone number or their facebook or when just invite them for a walk or even a date ( you know, stress, awkward situations etc. ) then ... Use downward tonality when you pose your invitiation! Make it sound like a gentle command and not even as a question. If it doesn't make so much sense to you when you hear yourself doing it, you are doing the right thing. It requires a little practice though in order to make it elegant, but it is effective either ways. Now for even further results and success ratios each time you ask such a thing from a girl imply in your tonality the following phrase " It's not a big deal " . You don't need to say that phrase, and you propably shouldn't to any girl, and you know why? BECAUSE OF COURSE IT IS A BIG DEAL TO F!!!!! WITH YOU, AND SHE KNOWS THAT :D . But you must make it sound like it's just a friendly invitation by a real man (nothing more than just combining the two things i told you before). X-tra : With girls that are not so open from the begining and you really believe that it is a NO from her do the followings. If it is a lost chance and you fcked everything up then simply Don't even ask. Believe it or not this way you will make her advertise you for free without the need of getting actually rejected. If there are some very small chances though, then tell her the following phrase " Lets just go for a walk as friends (you push your hands, you make a short pause and you smile before and after that "as friends") and chat. " Friendzones and shits like that do NOT exist. If she accepts, it means that she just needed an excuse to break her mental patterns preventing her from doing what she really wanted, and there is your chance! Throw her some copliments ( not many ) , make some pseudo-sexual chatting at times and command her to go out with you elegantly . (ALWAYS WITH DOWNWARD TONALITY*)