A QUESTION FOR TALL GUYS!

cheekiestdoc · 2016-06-29T20:29:09+00:00

6'2 guy here. Even though I'm tall, it was only when my game/personality developed - then I saw results.

Game/Personality/Mindset > Height

Raaaz · 2016-06-29T22:07:34+00:00

6'3" Im lonely as fuck

DeathRebirth · 2016-06-29T20:45:54+00:00

I am 6'4"... Yes it helps, though only when I take the lead and approach. Tall, ripped, stunning good looks... Only help close the deal not start it. For people lacking the superficial there are the things that help with approach like self confidence, frame, humor, intelligence, or just general charisma. They are just as important if not more.

Snazzy_Serval · 2016-06-29T21:33:33+00:00

Do you see any noticeable improvement in PU being tall?

I don't know yet. Let me grow three inches and I'll get back to you.

alex0919 · 2016-06-30T18:04:56+00:00

I'm here to tell you (humbly) that I'm a very attractive looking guy, 6'3", blonde/blue eyes, lean/muscular but I'm going to say this again - if I don't approach women they will rarely do anything first, I've had three girls actually ask me out on their own and it was never cold approach and it was all very coy, the most forward was still extremely shy, story time:

"Hey, you probably get this a lot, but do you remember talking to me?"; Me: Honestly not but I try to be polite; H: "Well, would you be interested in going out on a date, I can give you my number..."; I had a girlfriend so I had to let her down :(

She wasn't that bad, I'd definitely approach her if I was single, but that was the first (and only) girl in my life to ask me out. If I come off in a shitty mood or awkward I still get bad receptions from people.

Height definitely helps get my foot in the door, I get a lot of "Oh wow, you're tall!" from girls, but it's not like they start grinding on me after. I still have to lead them through an interaction to have sex, they won't do it.

Height supplements your performance/results, but it's not a necessary ingredient - I can look attractive but I need to act attractive to close the deal.

Petra_Ichor · 2016-06-30T18:53:24+00:00

Hey IwontGiveIt, here's my input as a female: When I was a virgin teenager I was all over tall dudes as you've described. However, once I actually started sleeping with dudes my interests drastically changed. I'm 5'4" and have found sex to be WAY more satisfying with dudes closer to my height- optimally with a dude who's around 5'9. So don't get discouraged- stay fit and go for the "fun-sized" girls ;)

And regarding your fitness goals: do stay active, but keep your goals performance-oriented rather than looks-oriented. Rock-climbing is my go-to example for this, but of course I'm biased! Having a six-pack isn't nearly as important as rocking the inverted-triangle body shape... it's all about the ratios, man!

HipHopTron · 2016-06-29T21:42:23+00:00

Not really. I never really figured out how to approach women and I just lucked into my current relationship.

HNTI · 2016-06-29T21:46:54+00:00

186 cm here. Height does shit without game/money/mindset etc. It's one of these "nice to have", but not essential. Do pull-ups, you might get a few more cm from stretched spine.

drsx2 · 2016-06-30T02:24:54+00:00

6'4" guy here.

Trust me, height ≠ getting pussy lol

Like other people have said, work on your game first and then let that speak for itself.

Montecristo901 · 2016-06-30T02:41:27+00:00

I'm 6'4 and it definitely helps to be tall when meeting girls. Just something that in most cases adds value. It's especially helpful for things on tinder where the matches come through a lot more frequently with the height in the profile vs without.

TheXXL · 2016-06-30T07:29:16+00:00

A close female friend of mine, very focused on looks with herself and men was together with one of my best friends, he is taller than me, about 190cm or more, I'm 186cm. She left him for a guy that's so short, that his head is at about my chest, I guess around 165cm? She told me when they got together the following thing: "well he's so not my type normally, but I can't help myself, he has something on himself that makes me go crazy about him." btw. She also loves guys hair, and he is bald Haha, they are soon having their third child.

Overnight_Delivery · 2016-06-30T16:23:47+00:00

I'm 5'8", just go for girls shorter than you, there are a shit ton.

urbangentlman · 2016-07-01T07:54:36+00:00

Tall has nothing to do with it. It's a characteristic similar to blue eyes or blonde hair. We all have personal tastes.

I assume its the same as being ripped?

I didn't choose to be 6'3. I however chose to put forth a conscious effort to seek personal fitness. That tenacity or whatever you want is a choice and committeemen which is an attractive attribute to many.

BMAC4211 · 2016-07-03T10:28:22+00:00

6'5 and I tell you right now, you can probs get easy puss, the amount of girls that are looking at you in awe but if you are looking for a real girl around work/school/in your class, it does nothing for you. Confidence and actual contact with these people is key. Sometimes when you are tall you just expect women to come to you, like in the movies, does not work that way

2016-07-04T17:46:27+00:00

I'm around 6'4", never had a woman ask me out, never get attention from them, made out with drunk girls in clubs. Height doesn't mean shit if you're not white.

Zaderhof · 2016-06-29T21:02:50+00:00

Never tried much with pick ups, got lucky a few times... Grew up in an all white town for the most part and I'm 6"1, pretty athletic, half black and half Mexican and shorter girls often told me height was a major factor. As for fitness, if you have a good personality and can make a chick laugh then being fit is just a bonus to beat out the other candidates.

Title	A QUESTION FOR TALL GUYS!
Author	IwontGiveIt
Upvotes	5
Comments	27
Date	June 29, 2016 8:19 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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