A recent study concluded that the main reason why women were not orgasming was the difficulty to focus when having sex with their partner. Here are some tips that could help you stay in the present moment.

Serpent73 · 2019-01-02T21:22:48+00:00

TLDR:

Synchronize breathing with partner. (as a way to relax, and remain in the moment.)

Focus on only 1 body part (as a way to calm an overactive mind w/o distracting it.)

Maintain eye contact. (This is also an excellent way to build and maintain intimacy!)

Relax and enjoy the act / process w/o worrying too much about THE GOAL. (Orgasm)

DrSleeper · 2019-01-02T22:58:27+00:00

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K3wp · 2019-01-02T23:56:20+00:00

Never really understood this debate.

Some women are simply 'multi-orgasmic' by nature and will easily orgasm regardless of what the man is/isn't doing. One girl I dated came multiple times every single time I had sex with her (including and especially anal, which she was crazy about).

Other women are 'frigid' and will have difficulty regardless of partner. Dated a few like this, unfortunately.

Most are in the middle and will get off provided they are properly aroused and stimulated.

I will say that I've been able to bring any girl to orgasm via manual G-spot stimulation with my fingers, assuming they let me do it.

jutrok · 2019-01-03T03:18:07+00:00

I dated a girl who would orgasm almost immediately upon penetration and it fucked with my head because I just knew she had to be faking it. I talked to her about it but only briefly because I didn’t want To make her feel weird about how she sexes or make her uncomfortable or having anxiety.

recyclablebanthas · 2019-01-03T04:00:37+00:00

(Next time you post a video, please post your own TL;DR in the body of the post, as /u/Serpent73 had to do for you in this case! Otherwise, it's just the nature of the game that most people won't bother clicking through because so many things are worthless spam.)

suscribednowhere · 2019-01-02T21:12:00+00:00

focus on what?

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