For the love of all that is holy and just in this world, be clear with what you are gonna say and do. Do this around women, do this around men, do this every day. If you see a girl and approach her with the thought of having sex with her, show her. If you want a relationship and want dates and the like, express that. Too many guys on here are in their heads too much. When you approach a girl, pump yourself up and then get all those thoughts out of your head and let yourself do you. The rest will come. Speak clearly and don't half ass your actions. Tired of these fuckers on here asking if they should do this or do that, just do it. There are soo many women on this planet, you're bound to find one you like.