Advice for being more “fun” in conversations and meeting people?

epimpstyle · 2024-11-25T08:37:45+00:00

If someone wants to learn a food recipe, they won't create one on the fly unless they guy is a "master chef" but a normal guy will make the meal following a recipe. You cannot have a funny/interesting conversation if you have no experience, it is impossible to create such things on the fly in the beginning.

For this reason you need scripts/routines/gambits, whether you like it or not, this is the way to go.

Recently someone on this sub told me "it is not good to use scripts/jokes because you sound robotic" but honestly this is BS, everyone knows how to use them to sound natural, even the word "perfect" can mean something awesome but if you say it in a certain voice or tonality the other person will understand you say it ironically.

There are all kinds of jokes you can insert in a conversation... "you have a nice bracelet/necklace/t-shirt... it reminds me of [insert a funny story]", or "Did you see that guy? I was in a bar/restaurant/city with a friend of mine and a guy like him... [insert a funny story]".. Is that easy to break the monotony of a conversation, you don't need hours or days to learn it, just a few minutes....it is difficult in the beginning but once you catch the vibe and you have a stack of jokes/routines you will always improvise something at the moment. However, a funny story in five minutes is enough otherwise, you become a clown.

Another method is to walk down the street with your friends and see a friend of yours talking to girls and then "copy" their jokes, but this is a time consuming method, it is like watching infield YT/TikTok videos of guys picking up girls, it takes hours to hear 4-5 jokes.

Chicagoj1563 · 2024-11-25T11:36:21+00:00

Improv is a great choice.

In addition to that, realize you will have to stretch yourself and push your comfort zone to improve.

Try going out to a packed bar and self amuse while meeting people. Go from group to group and really try to stretch yourself. Turn your thinking mind off. Train yourself to have fun with everyone and tap into your extroverted side.

Focus on self amusement rather than trying to illicit laughter from people. Make it about your fun without any concern about outcomes.

Whatever reactions you get shouldn’t change your mood. No self judgment, no thinking. Just in the moment fun.

Make it a social experiment or mission.

Dandys3107 · 2024-11-25T13:49:57+00:00

You can start paying attention to people that have good social skills on meetings you attend. Take their methods and mindsets that suits you and create your own sense of humor and style. Also, I would advise to treat others like they would be your good friends already, be expressive, play with words, crack jokes, stay laidback, act little silly and most importantly HAVE FUN YOURSELF.

Title	Advice for being more “fun” in conversations and meeting people?
Author	theadept1313
Upvotes	9
Comments	3
Date	November 25, 2024 1:54 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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