Smallest step to take to start to approach?

Bane_xr · 2025-11-29T16:21:45+00:00

Say hi to strangers, ask for time, anything that gets you away from introverted state to extroverted.

Don't judge yourself harshly if you can't say hi to a stranger or ask for time (been there), just reduce it even more.
Progress is what matters here, not the size of the step.

That's it. Step by step. The simpler the plan, the easier the execution.

And give yourself props for each win no matter how small...
If you approached 5 people today and you asked them for time, be happy as a mf.
Progress is progress, don't shy away from small steps.

Prestigious_Water336 · 2025-11-29T16:53:29+00:00

Start making small talk with women workers at their job. It's literally their job to talk to you and be friendly.

Total_Obligation_371 · 2025-11-29T17:00:41+00:00

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ImpossibleWaiting · 2025-11-29T20:06:50+00:00

Create a good route with a lot of girls walking by and walk it every day. Look women in the eyes with a slight smile. Lock eyes if it happens. Keep moving forward. Each locked eye contact is a signal for you to approach. The clearest of them all. Once you've had enough of those, it will be too painful not to approach anymore.

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-11-29T16:45:41+00:00

If you’re nervous talking to pretty girls that means their looks are intimidating to you. I’d suggest talk to random people first, average looking girls or even random guys.

Virtual_Ad_4817 · 2025-11-29T22:40:04+00:00

Literally just take a step lol. Then take another one. then another one. Until you're in front of her. And then you open.

No amount of thinking can make it easier. You just need to do it.

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-30T03:15:17+00:00

It's on a case by case basis . Personally I think it starts with your mindset. You need to go from " this seduction thing is fun I am curious" to " I will get laid or die trying" For daygame especially , if you are a guy with average massive value you will need to really work on your mindsets, body language and social skills to stand out . Good news is when you get good at this guys who are taller, better looking, richer than you can't touch you .

insanerizzy · 2025-11-30T04:58:36+00:00

Practice eye contact with strangers

Vox_Dissidens · 2025-11-30T11:27:52+00:00

Smallest possible thing you can do is make eye-contact with some strangers.

Next, give a little nod.

Say hello. Ask for the time. Ask for directions. Ask for an opinion on something. Compliment something about their style.

Each step feels a little more imposing and requests more investment from the other person, which is exactly what your approach anxiety is telling you not to do. I’m sure you could copy-paste this comment into ChatGPT and get it to write you a list of progressively increasing challenges to overcome fear of approaching.

Sweet-Visual-2137 · 2025-12-01T14:41:40+00:00

Do it i was like you but in some day i saw a girl and boom went for it and as tip try to take a wingman with you

Title	Smallest step to take to start to approach?
Author	theadept1313
Upvotes	4
Comments	12
Date	November 29, 2025 4:03 PM UTC (8 months ago)
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