Advice needed for good looking guys PLEASE

bl1y · 2013-11-23T13:21:52+00:00

Just don't run cocky/funny as hard; with good looking guys it comes across as being an asshole.

Vulkreem · 2013-11-23T22:30:42+00:00

This might just be a college thing, but I'd say I'm a pretty good looking guy. Here's what I've been told:

A bunch of the girls I've hooked up with told me they expected me to be an asshole because I'm good looking, have an accent and every girl wanted me (their words not mine). When I wasn't an asshole and actually listened to what they were saying instead of staring at their chest the whole time, it threw them off. From there comfort -> sex.

So uh, don't be a douche.

JohnnyB11790 · 2013-11-23T12:10:24+00:00

Yes and no. I do not understand your question and where you are struggling. Being good looking may still be a struggle in my case because women select me.

This makes me lazy in some social situations and not able to practice game.

goen_cunt · 2013-11-23T16:15:21+00:00

my game at the moment: -approach, ask if they have boyfriends, offer drinks -talk shit all night, hopefully get them very drunk so they agree to come home

its not working. my openings fucked isnt it? desperation?

leftajar · 2013-11-23T17:09:13+00:00

You can skip a lot of stuff when you're good-looking. My friend, you need to learn "lazy game." Assume it'll always be easy. Plan dates that are stupidly low effort. And shamelessly escalate on girls when they're back at your place. It works, especially if your standards are somewhat relaxed.

ohwilson · 2013-11-23T13:33:26+00:00

All girls need a certain level of comfort with you before they'll have sex. Basically, you have too build crazy physical attraction, high escalation, push-pull, intense making out, all that jazz, but she'll only go home with you if add some comfort building to prove that you're "normal" and not a serial killer or a rapist. A lot of things can factor into how long this takes. Depends on her personality, level of attraction, who you're there with, mutual friends, drunkeness, how her friends feel about it, etc. The more of these factors that are in your favor, the more likely you'll be able to have a one night stand with her if that's what you're looking for.

goen_cunt · 2013-11-23T14:06:08+00:00

Sorry I wasn't clear. Im 25. Ended a 3 year relationship last year. Have been striking out recently. Ive approached plenty girls in the last 6 weeks but havent closed. Should good looking men be more forward/blatant?

Herr_Lich · 2013-11-23T14:51:21+00:00

I don't see why good looking guys should approach women any differently than average guys.

joshsway · 2013-11-23T18:56:03+00:00

Approach, eye contact, kino, isolate, close. Not much different than regular game, just easier when you are good looking.

goen_cunt · 2013-11-23T14:08:20+00:00

Should over 8/10 guys sit pretty and wait for the game to come to them?

Title	Advice needed for good looking guys PLEASE
Author	goen_cunt
Upvotes	0
Comments	17
Date	November 23, 2013 11:38 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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