"Alpha" males, what are your rules for communication online/via text?

BajinghaBlop · 2015-02-04T23:13:43+00:00

Don't bother with chatting online. I just use txt to arrange things. Quite often I will just call them because it's faster.

PizzaBoy95 · 2015-02-05T11:58:05+00:00

My favorite approach is to call. With girls my age it totally catches them off guard. She can hear/feel my confidence through my voice, it's easier to flirt and, using the right tone of voice, I can get away with saying anything. Also, I feel like after a 10-20 minute phone call I set the tone for interactions. It makes the transition from number in my phone to girl in front of me very smooth and easy. I defiantly feel like I can show off my alpha personality through voice calls more than I ever can texting. Try it out, good luck boys!

worldclassmathlete · 2015-02-05T01:37:57+00:00

I write in proper grammar, but I also speak with proper grammar. I use the most basic emoji, like 😊, but that's about it. Just make sure your spelling is correct, and fix your typos.

demerson35 · 2015-02-05T02:20:25+00:00

Mirror her texting style. If she uses emojis, you reciprocate. But don't send emojis first until she does.

I use proper grammar because of the Iphone autocorrect.

Devo7ion · 2015-02-04T22:31:12+00:00

I indeed do use emojis. But that's probably because of my age (19).

Besides that, I just go with correct grammar except no capitalizations.

Sedditor829 · 2015-02-06T12:56:46+00:00

Dude the most important part is to not think about it too much. At this point there is no sexual tension so just text her like you would anyone else. Don't try to get cute or sound amazing. Don't try to be overly "alpha" either by keeping your texts to a minimum.

If you're a man of few words be simple in your texts. If you text a lot, text her a lot. And if you're a goofball, go ahead and put those lols and :-)s in there. It's okay, this is your personality shining through!

Also despite what I see on here I've found some people actually like texting a lot before going out on a date. It lets you get a feeling like you know the person a bit before hanging out again. It's okay and some girls will even love it especially if you are a good texter (which you probably are if you do it a lot).

In the end don't sweat your technique too much and just text her kind of like you would talk to her. If you're going to text you might as well use it to let her get to know you a bit.

Title	"Alpha" males, what are your rules for communication online/via text?
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Date	February 4, 2015 10:24 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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