May you provide some examples of the differences between the two.

I can open any group of girls and usually go to the bar or another location in the club with a girl. I can make them laugh, and they show indicators of interest. I do push-pulls, and they give me shit tests. I make plans with them, but they tend to flake. I went out the last three Fridays and get about 3-6 numbers/IG each night but they either don’t respond or flake. Where am I and what are my next steps?