Tonight was, again, pretty bad.

I realized that I have absolutely no clue how to approach groups of girls in nightclubs. Every time I try to approach it's always the same god-damned conversations:

Usually I try to get ones attention(the one closest to me), and say:

"Hey, you guys look like y'all are having a lot of fun!"

"Yeah..."

"Are you a fan of dance music?"

Etc...

I can't flirt or think quick on my feet and I'm sick and fucking tired of coming home empty handed every goddamn night. As the night progressed my mentality became more like "I'm running out of time, I need to get a girl or a number or something!" Rather than "I'm here to have fun and meet people!" And I guess that is because deep down, I am fucking tired of not being able to get laid. Every time I go out, I see others talking to girls, dancing with them, making out, etc... and I come home alone and it's depressing. I don't know how to be ok with coming home alone, I just can't. I don't know how to not care about going home alone, I've been told to believe that it's what losers do frequently if they are single.

Most of the people I end up talking to are other guys, but as the night goes, I feel more and more pressured to find girls. I don't know how to just let go and go with the flow.