Approaching the prettiest girls

cudder17 · 2014-06-18T22:28:39+00:00

You don't get over your fears and then approach. You get over your fears by approaching.

okayawesome91 · 2014-06-18T20:42:06+00:00

Everyone is your superior & inferior in some way. In the end, we are all equal.

I am a fast typist, I probably type faster than you do, does that make me a better person?
Pope Francis probably isn't that good at sports, does that make him a worse person than you?

I put myself on the same plane as all women. Whether they are:

Old or young
Obese or Fit
Physically unattractive or super model beautiful
White, black, asian, mexican, jewish, etc.

The woman is my equal and I will approach her as such.

sedditforthewin · 2014-06-18T21:41:50+00:00

Repeat to yourself over and over again that you deserve those girls. Even if you don't believe it at first, our brains have a weakness in that something which is repeated enough seems true after enough time.

Also approaching a bunch of ugly girls in a night will make it easier to start approaching the hot ones.

SinSlayer · 2014-06-18T23:08:11+00:00

Your problem is that your prequalifing these women (and in doing so disqualifying yourself) mentally. Instead of rating them on an antiquated 1-10 scale, try to simplify it to just "Do I find her attractive? Yes or No?" If the answer is yes, approach. Because the only difference between that 6 you CAN talk to and the 10 you CANT is in your head.

okayawesome91 · 2014-06-19T08:20:26+00:00

As Kong from SimplePickup says: "I don't fear rejection; I fear regret".

SofaKingNatty · 2014-06-19T13:11:15+00:00

Quit being a bitch and just do it. Carpe diem brah

latebloomfield · 2014-06-19T06:57:10+00:00

Take my fear of overcoming roller coasters as an example. When I was younger, I was absolutely terrified of them. Every time my friends wanted to go to Six Flags, I would make up some lame excuse to not go. I eventually got dragged along and and rode Goliath as my first roller coaster (tallest roller coaster in the park). As you can imagine, everything else was easy after that and I ended up having a lot more fun.

The same applies to women. The best way to overcome a fear of approaching the prettiest girls is to approach the prettiest girl you've ever seen. You'll seen realize that they're just flesh and bones and that they have the same insecurities as everyone else.

You're lying to yourself when you're approaching women that you're not attracted to. And girls can sense that. Act on your true intentions. Let me repeat again, act on your true intentions. Life is too short to be dancing around what you really want.

recyclablebantha · 2014-06-19T07:37:52+00:00

I've heard that the prettiest girls are the loneliest because everybody is scared of approaching them - is it true?

Yes, it's true. Most guys don't have the balls to step to them and assume that they must be fielding TONS of advances from other guys so they don't bother.

.....mediocre girls.....talking to them and kissing them is boring. My dick isn't even reacting sometimes, because those girls aren't that pretty and I can't get a boner

This is natural. And it's honestly kind of nice when a physiological reaction like this (lack of boner, etc.) helps you keep in alignment with your values. Because when you sell yourself short and end up with someone you wouldn't want to be in public with, it's not a good feeling. ;)

what if I don't deserve her,

I will somehow fail anyway so why bother,

she is too pretty, if I talk to her, I will fuck it up and won't be able to stare at her anymore etc. etc.

Look, you have to come up with your own antidote for these thoughts. As SOON as one of these thoughts runs through your mind, you have to pound at it with it's logical counterpart: something you come up with will be better than what we could. But for the hell of it, I'll run some possible counterparts past you:

You don't know if SHE deserves YOU. You have no idea what she's like. She might be an idiot. Listening to her talk might be like nails on a chalkboard. Etc.
It's ridiculous to assume you'll fail. She might even be working with you, which would make it even easier than you would think.

Title	Approaching the prettiest girls
Author	G_W_addict
Upvotes	4
Comments	12
Date	June 18, 2014 7:54 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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