Hi.

First of all: I'm a guy. Straight heterosexual guy. This is important.

So I went to my favourite club yesterday, wanted to chill out, drink beer and maybe hookup, didn't pressure myself. I sat at my favorite place, where I can smoke cigs calmly and usually girls approach me asking for a lighter or for a small chit-chat (I approach them too, if I like them). Sitting there, I noticed a guy with a girl. They were laughing, talking and just having good time. We started to talk about random things and how I kissed this girl's friend few weeks ago. It was normal conversation and as soon as this girl went to toilet, her boy approached me and... he started to talk to me. He said that I'm full of shit and I try to sell some kind of image, that I'm not myself and it pisses him off.

I was scared, because I had no idea, what is he talking about. Then he said to me that I'm smart, intelligent, emotional and handsome and he has no idea, why I bother pretending to be someone else, when I'm perfect just by being me. And he started to explain his points, talking to me about himself, talking about myself etc.etc. I found out that he is personal coach, he deals with other people issues.

And... while we were talking, he touched me few times - it was like hug or tap on shoulder etc, nothing sexual, but... well, you know what?

I felt amazing with him. Even tho he said a lot of shit about me, most of that were true in some way. I felt free, I felt attractive, I felt honest. So I stood up and approached girl. One of prettiest girl in club. It was nice feeling, it was nice to feel appreciated and seen. I mean, I felt like "FINALLY, THIS GUY KNOWS ME, WOW".

Even when his girl came back with decent friend, we didn't care, we just kept on talking.

But after few hours of talking, we casually split up. I went home, slept for 7 hours and woke up few hours ago.

And now, when I think about it - he tricked me. He manipulated me into thinking good about myself. But it isn't as bad as it sounds - because I still feel good. I mean, we exchanged our experiences, learnt a lot about ourselves and... what's bad in that? I also now know more about myself and i'm glad it happened to me.

Now, imagine I were girl. I would be all wet all night, because

THIS GUY SAW THROUGH ME AND HE GETS ME

THIS GUY SAID COMPLIMENTS WHICH NOONE EVER SAID

I FELT GOOD WITH HIM, WE WERE JUST ENOJYING OUR TIME

tl;dr I got seduced by a guy. It felt honest, it felt good and I don't regret anything. Now I will apply this experience into girls and I will do my best to make them feel good about spending time with me. I will stop just trying to get into their pants.

PS: We didn't have sex although we exchanged facebooks.