Are girls actually stuck up?

2014-07-04T02:51:36+00:00

Every girl that doesn't like me is stuck up.

jeniland · 2014-07-04T03:57:17+00:00

Am girl! I don't consider myself stuck up. I don't consider myself to have a princess complex or an over inflated sense of sense entitlement. My major malfunction is a case of chronic bitchface.

I'm certain there are times when I come off as shitty or shallow, but it's usually (and I can only speak for myself not the feminine population as a whole) due to the way someone approaches me. Most of the men I've rejected before they could utter more than 4 sentences suffer the same problems you just asked if all women suffer from. Inflated ego, false sense of self grandiosity, to name a couple. And I simply do not have the time nor the willpower to entertain narcissists.

The other times I shut men down quickly is when they address me as sub-human, and objectify me as if I'm just one big walking boob placed on the earth for their perverse enjoyment. I, myself, rarely pass judgment based on looks alone. That's not to say I don't take it into consideration, as no one wants to date someone they find revolting. But I'm more likely to pass on the looks for a while to see what else in lieu of conversation and personality is offered. Again that's not to say I'm not a little shallow but I'd be lying to you if I told you "oh looks don't matter" they do. You don't have to be Mr. GQ though.

In conclusion men and women are all different in how they behave. Some women are shallow like a puddle, so are some men. Some women have poles up their asses, so do some men. And some women just might not have the time or energy to deal with immature ignorance, like some men. Best advice if you're getting rejected by bitchy women a lot is take a step back and evaluate your approach, I'd even just ask them "for future reference where did I go wrong in this? Got so you prefer a man approaches you" It'll help you for future reference whether it's something you're doing, or if maybe the quality of girls you're going for needs to be addressed.

Oh and as for myself when a guy comes up to me I prefer a smile and an introduction, some chit chat about something current like the world cup right now something relevant, and if you get far enough to ask a nonchalant "are you here with anyone?" Suffices just fine, and when I say yes I do have a boyfriend, don't get shitty and storm off its a bad look and makes me want to punch you in the throat. You don't have to keep taking to me all night but don't be a dick.

I probably read way too into this but I hope it helps.

Edit: wall of text.

sedditforthewin · 2014-07-05T00:56:30+00:00

Sugar and spice, every girl can be an angel or a demon for you depending on her goals.

SinSlayer · 2014-07-03T22:34:54+00:00

I agree to an extent. There is truth to the statement "the right man at the right time..." however, some women do have an over inflated sense of self. They want the GQ cover man but they themselves are little more than the Jet beauty of the week. Someone think they are the princess the highest room in the tallest tower and want to sit around waiting for prince charming, all the while they fail to realize they are the ugly stepsister. And no amount of stepping up on my part will change that.

Title	Are girls actually stuck up?
Author	alex0919
Upvotes	4
Comments	5
Date	July 3, 2014 10:24 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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