At a club/bar, does this mean anything?

hunterpua · 2026-05-25T19:02:14+00:00

Yes.

Guys gotta understand that it's not just zero or 100.

She probably doesn't want to fuck you just from pressing her back against you but she would at least be willing to dance face to face, and from there things can escalate from 10 to 20 to 50 and if everything goes well, all the way to 100.

So don't be afraid if you're getting an indication that isn't so strong it doesn't feel like sex is really on the table.

Things can and do build up along an interaction.

Anyone who says she either wants you or she doesn't is just being lazy. And that's fine. Choosing to be lazy with dating is their prerogative, but it doesn't mean their ideas about attraction are accurate.

bagman_ · 2026-05-25T18:08:24+00:00

Buddy waited till he got home to type this instead of just turning around

OpinionThink481 · 2026-05-25T23:55:48+00:00

You don't make a move because you think she secretly wants you to. You make your move because you want to, regardless of what she secretly hopes. Her job is not to indicate to you whether you can make a move, her job is to either accept or reject your move once you have started to express it.

So this question is not masculine at all because it's reactive instead of proactive, it's your reacting to her lead instead of leading things yourself. The man leads and the woman either follows his lead or refuses and the man accepts gracefully and unperturbed any outcome. The man does not ask the woman if he can lead. And the man never does what's expected, because a man doesn't behave according to external expectations, he behaves according to what his heart desires.

Ancient_Weekend_4050 · 2026-05-25T21:57:07+00:00

I’m not gonna lie I just chalk it up to the dance floor being crowded and don’t turn around 😭😭, these comments have me wondering if I’ve been reading into this wrong

SilverFoxBurner · 2026-05-29T17:43:57+00:00

Yes! She is there to have fun, you are there to have fun. Have fun and stop overthinking it…

Title	At a club/bar, does this mean anything?
Author	neverTouchedWomen
Upvotes	16
Comments	8
Date	May 25, 2026 5:44 PM UTC (2 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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