Beginner's Paradox?

JackGetsIt · 2016-06-22T17:07:54+00:00

Take this approach. Girls are one or a two. One's you'd have sex with two's you wouldn't. Now, If she's a one go on the date. If she show's good qualities consider a LTR or a plate. If she shows bad qualities plate her or next her. If she's a single mom, bpd, or dark triad; hard next.

After you've establish three plates or so up what ever you consider a 'one' to be. Continue this trend forever. Don't get married.

CrushHazard · 2016-06-22T17:31:44+00:00

It's less about should versus shouldn't on dating girls you aren't attracted to.... I've found that in adult life, I've had more success with women I'm attracted to than I have with women I wasn't attracted to.

If there's one way that men and women are the same, we want to be wanted. Even if she's more attracted to you than you are to her, that can quickly change once she feels you out. You're better off in the long run pursuing women you really dig because they will sense that and become more attracted to you because of it.

DeltaEmerald · 2016-06-22T17:40:14+00:00

You did good.

DaygameCoach · 2016-06-22T17:38:40+00:00

In general, pursue don't contact or message women you aren't attracted to. Since you were already in the process this one time, I don't have a problem with you meeting her but if upon meeting her, you weren't attracted to her, don't pursue. Sometimes you get lucky and she looks much better in person (I think it's happened to me only twice, lol).

Whats with this did good or bad stuff? You don't need our approval for something you already did. You went out, cool.

Boo-urns93 · 2016-06-22T18:22:05+00:00

Nothing to lose by going on the date. If you meet up and don't find her attractive you don't have to see her again but you might find her personality increases her attractiveness to you.

questionthis · 2016-06-22T18:41:42+00:00

There's no problem with that, you're getting back in to the game. Everyone needs practice, and you don't want to take on more than you're ready for. I guess just be respectful enough not to waste her time and keep seeing her for practice if she becomes in to you.

Title	Beginner's Paradox?
Author	gtrman571
Upvotes	5
Comments	7
Date	June 22, 2016 5:01 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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