Hi. This forum was recommended by a friend, who said I should give it a shot asking what you guys thought. So basically, I'm in a situation where I'm unsure as how to act. Ive been seeing this girl now for a month, as in hooking up with. couple movie nights. Ive slept over but she hasn't let me fuck her. She's a good girl, nice body, but not a particularly nice face, and her personality is a little bland, but not extremely. For the first week or so, she was always saying how much she liked me. Since then I've hung out with her and her roommates, and her friends have kinda accidentally mentioned how she talks about me to them, in a good way. She also texts me alot, usually the first to initiate it. The issue comes in here. When it's just us, we have fun. mostly just sexual shit...when she talks its usually about petty tiffs with her roommates. However, and i feel like an asshole for feeling this way, im a little embarrassed to be with her in public. I was never really shy with girls in public before. I think it's probably because i dont find myself all that attracted to her. At the same time I enjoy our fooling around. I feel that this girl is pushing for a relationship, and im the kind of guy for relationships. i want to be in them that is. but with the situation i have with this girl, it certainly isnt a viable option at the moment. The few people Ive talked to have told me that im not obligated to dive into a relationship, and that i should try and change it into a booty call kind of situation. and i guess im starting to feel that way too. if i keep hanging out with her she's probably going to pressure me into something more serious. I want to know what y'all think. I reckon i should probably fuck her soon, and then stop hanging out with her, and try and change it into a booty call situation. Not to make things more complicated, but if she tells me she's a virgin, things are gonna get alot more tricky. any suggestions?