I am a very talkative guy, on dates at least. I don't like boasting about myself, but I've been told that I am very articulate and that I have a lot of things of value to say, to the point that it's impressive for others.

And I noticed that on dates, I talk with women for hours and then they become lovey dovey afterwards, too emotionally attached. I am currently not looking for a relationship, but to have fun. This doesn't seem to change the outcone though.

Sometimes I think that it would be beneficial for me to tone down my personality so that people don't fall in love with me.

Is anyone in the same situation, or has been? Is it a good, or a bad thing?