Best way to proceed?

Impressive_Sport_713 · 2022-03-31T00:37:48+00:00

Keep doing what youre doing. From what you described theres a connection and she enjoys your company. In my opinion, the best way is dont ask her out just yet. Not that its bad if you were to be direct in asking her out and get shut down(no problem). But i think its best to just keep being friends and move on to her socials. Then chat from time to time there... if done right, the opportunity will present itself there to where you dont really have to ask her out

If she turns down your socials. Its a very soft blow that shes not interested. And no harm done. You still can comfortably go to the gym and still be cool

nman112 · 2022-03-31T03:48:08+00:00

Stop being scared and ask her if she would like to grab a drink sometime then suggest exchanging phone numbers

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-03-31T01:36:12+00:00

Maybe in another year you will hold hands and I two more years you will kiss. Rooting for you buddy!

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-03-31T02:22:51+00:00

When you are interested in someone you are supposed to directly talk to her and hit on her/flirt… Why haven’t you yet?

before you ask her out for some drinks you first need to establish that you are attracted to her, so do it… Bite your bottom lip in a sexuallly suggestive way, and tell her:

“Girl you are so fine, you be looking like a snack! Let me take you out!”

Doing stuff like this is called flirting, which is essential to you create sexual tension, make her feel desired, and then go for a date.

Yes you do need to make her feel desired before you ask for a date you need to establish a man to woman vive first to avoid any platonic confusion, and to make her feel the sexual tension

RedCardOrder · 2022-03-31T04:18:17+00:00

Might not be the best advice but you can leave your number on a piece of paper and hand it to her or something along the lines of that 😅

FlatDistance5 · 2022-03-31T04:15:26+00:00

So 2 ways you can handle this if your cabinet is full… and your already dating chicks just let her keep flirting she’ll be a nice back burner.

I’m always cognizant about potentially shitting where you eat, and I like my space so again if I was in your position and I was fucking other girls than no I wouldn’t go for her.

Buuuuuttttt, if you aren’t fucking other girls and you can care less if you see her everytime you go to the gym than yea make her part of the rotation.

Here’s how you do it if you decide to get her. If she addresses you don’t make it a big deal say, hey your cute we should split a bottle of wine soon…. Or we should go for a walk soon…. Also btw since she’s really into you try to invite her straight over your place or walk close to your place

2022-03-31T04:52:47+00:00

Make up a ridiculous question about the gym. Ask her something absurd and make her laugh. Then flirt a little and ask her out. If I make eye contact with a man and intentionally smile and touch his shoulder, I definitely want him to ask me out. If she says no, fuck it, you get points for trying.

excentrik-art · 2022-03-31T05:11:08+00:00

Best way to invite her is - Hey I will be doing (something you like) this evening, wanna join me? There is no pressure for you or her, you will be doing it anyway.

burncushlikewood · 2022-03-31T05:47:15+00:00

I disagree I think you should just grab her number and ask her out, if she's interested she'll come through. However converting a date into a relationship is not my strong suit. Pick a good date idea, something fun and that gives you an opportunity to talk, maybe take her to a nice bar and grab a beer, probably my favorite date idea

2022-03-31T05:54:53+00:00

Of course she wants it to happen naturally and smoothly, but there is not much you can do to deepen your intimacy in these circumstances. You can try also to give her back some deep look and slight touch, but overall you should think of some situation where you will be able to talk privately 1 on 1.

Notakas · 2022-03-31T06:56:53+00:00

she works there

Yeah, don't do that, like in general, ever.

Title	Best way to proceed?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	17
Comments	34
Date	March 31, 2022 12:28 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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