Bluntness vs. Suaveness

thedonkdonk · 2016-03-18T18:55:45+00:00

Personally, I am exceedingly blunt. All my friends know I'm prone to start talking about my wang any minute. However, my night game pickup line is "Hi, my name is thedonkdonk." Stick out my hand for a quality handshake and ask "Having fun tonight?"

If that goes okay, then I will say "I had to come over and flirt with you because I like <what ever the reason is she caught my eye>." Frequently, I will say "because I like your big booty." I have a type...

Anyway, I think it works for me well because I have no fear of rejection and I'm wildly honest. "I'm not going to say I have the biggest wang ever, but I've had a few ladies call me cervix crusher. Consider it a warning." It sounds cheesy and it kind of is but the right lady will giggle. Because I'm not all up in her space, she can walk away any moment and I'm not gonna creep after her.

Some people absolutely hate me, but most find me refreshingly sincere. I've for sure had women be not interested, but who still appreciate my game and will some times wingman for me. They know I am good times.

CrushHazard · 2016-03-18T16:55:51+00:00

Depends on a lot of different factors. You need to figure out more about the woman in question....figure out what she feels she's lacking in her life -- her desires, wants and needs.

I see these techniques saying to escalate slowly....and all that stuff

Well, I think it's better to err on the side of too fast and then freeze out if she gets uncomfortable rather than moving too slow and have her think you are afraid of sex.

But when I talk to some of my friends they make it seem like they straight up just whip out their dick and that translates to sex

Context is really important here. Obviously whipping out your dick when you are in bed and she is in her underwear is a lot different than whipping out your dick right after you shake her hand for the first time.

A good rule of thumb is if she is groping your crotch already, you should be okay to whip it out without issue.

There is another school of thought that one of the more notorious pickup companies espouses that borders on rape. I think it's pretty obvious that a guy shouldn't ever physically force a woman into sex acts, but maybe that's just me. I honestly don't like submissive women who go limp whenever they encounter a sexual situation, but I know some guys like to be in complete control.

DaygameCoach · 2016-03-19T01:17:49+00:00

Read Mode One by Roger Allen Curie.

Big_TX · 2016-03-18T17:41:39+00:00

Just watch infield videos. They will explain all much more than text ever can.

Don't whip out your dick if your a noobie. You need more experience to know when it's appropriate and you need to have confidence built up.

Id say a general rule of thumb is, If it's day game go swave. Night game you can be more aggressive or rapid excitation. Obviously there are exceptions to that rule.

Lastly if you are on a date and the girl is like away from you but she is into you, you can be like "come here" and have her cuddle up. That's a good "trick"

ItsBinissTime · 2016-03-19T01:35:06+00:00

You shouldn't be thinking fast or slow. You should be thinking smooth.

Escalate with small steps. Her reaction to each tells you how she feels about the current level, and whether to progress, hang out, or back off. She doesn't realize it, but she dictates the speed. You initiate and read her reaction. In the right situation, it'll be fast.

Being overly forward is a filtering technique. ~~I think it was "Style" who~~ [Edit: someone] told the story about a buddy yelling at all the girls walking by, "I want to piss in your butt!" That guy went home with a chick, because he sifted through all the girls who didn't think that was funny, and found the one that did.

It's on you to find the right balance between polarizing their reactions and being generally attractive. Then when you're with someone, escalate as fast as she's comfortable with.

LaurenceB · 2016-03-18T22:40:57+00:00

When youre looked at and touched in a certain way by a girl, you just know it's on.

stuckchump · 2016-03-19T00:17:20+00:00

For what it's worth, I've seen plenty of guys talk tough like their SO's are their property but when in the company of their SO's, it comes out that they bent over backwards in the courting process and continue to take the servant role.

I probably only works if they are set on taking you down already. I saw something about Tom Brady (fraudster but that's a topic for another sub) talking about how he shit-tests with his dates (pretends to be upset at something they say on the 1st date). But that doesn't work so well for a regular joe.

Title	Bluntness vs. Suaveness
Author	wtf334
Upvotes	33
Comments	11
Date	March 18, 2016 4:44 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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