Boyfriend breaker Help!!

Box-Monkey · 2010-03-16T23:21:07+00:00

stop it, you prick. she's got a boyfriend, and even if she didn't, you're being a little one-itis about the whole thing.

really, though, if you theoretically wanted to break them up and you already know she's into you, the best way to do it would be by putting a time constraint on the situation. start dating other girls, hot ones, and make sure she knows about it. spend less time with her. if she's really into you, this will force her to decide if she reeeeeally wants to be with the bf. but don't actually do that, because then you'd be a douche.

eternalimprovisor · 2010-03-16T23:19:50+00:00

Stop being a dick and find someone else.

m0nk3yb0y · 2010-03-17T00:49:08+00:00

date someone else until they break up on their own.

tells · 2010-03-17T00:25:02+00:00

Despite what you think is working for you, it's her being awful to her boyfriend. She's obviously got her own issues in her relationship to deal with and you don't want to be in a relationship with a person like that to begin with. If you think seducing a woman who is morally compromised is an accomplishment, you don't know shit. Try seducing an attractive woman of high value and with watertight morals. You won't find any tougher game or a better catch. Also, the game is not just about wetting your dick. This is real life, and you're fucking shit up for somebody else.

Barackattack · 2010-03-17T05:47:23+00:00

What country are you from?

2010-03-20T22:34:47+00:00

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tells · 2010-03-17T01:05:12+00:00

Okay guys, I guess youre right. I cant do anything but wait.... I love this girl for a year now, I changed so much for her. I used to be a shy guy with no girl number in my cellphone. I started learning seduction, going to the gym, and be more social. Now I have a lot of parties. Guys are inviting me because I can bring girls. I have been with 3 girls since last year. The thing is that I already know how to get this girl. I have to reset my headgame. I cant think of her as anything special, cant put her in the center of my world. I have to get with more girls, and be even better alpha male.

I want to be strong but I feel so weak. I dont want to be emotional, i want to be logical, have fun in my life. Its so hard though. I guess all I can do is wait.

Horatio__Caine · 2010-03-17T04:06:40+00:00

My advice? Actively freeze her out of a sexual relationship with you until she breaks up with her boyfriend. Put no pressure on her. She'll come if she wants you.

Example strategy: Start pursuing other girls and while you flirt with her, mention casually how you should double date.

Listro · 2010-03-17T01:15:53+00:00

A lot of the time women stay with a "boyfriend" until they find someone else to spend time with.
Also, you aren't responsible for her moral actions. I advise against actively trying to destroy relationships. However, if she is actively trying to be alone with you in your apartment, fuck her. As in, put your dick in her vagina.
Stop caring about the boyfriend. He doesn't exist. If she's going out of her way to create a world where he isn't (ie. alone with you in her apartment) then you should not be thinking about him at all.
Do you know how to escalate with a woman from 0 to sex? Yeah, that's all you need when you're with this girl
Personally, I think monogamy is a giant lie that people play along with for the wrong reasons. I have my reasons why i'm ok with being polyamorous. Do you have your reasons why you're ok with the way you live? If so, that's all you need for this "boyfriend breaker" thing you speak of. Hopefully, it has nothing to do with breaking boyfriends and only has to do with you and the girl you're with.

2010-03-17T00:01:26+00:00

hey dumbass, never date a girl who broke up with someone else to go out with you, that means you can never trust her. yes, there are exceptions, but you don't sound at all bright enough to deserve one.

Title	Boyfriend breaker Help!!
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Upvotes	0
Comments	24
Date	March 16, 2010 5:09 PM UTC (16 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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