So to summarize my situation, I have a dinner date set up with an old friend I hooked up with before. We are very open in what we talk about via text both regarding our lives and sex lives. We've said how we are tempted to have sex with each other again and basically went all the way as far as texts can go.

One problem is that she wants to take things slow and have this dinner date to be just a nice dinner. I am picking her up but this means that we won't be drinking if that adds to this topic. Is it safe to ask her to come to my place to watch a movie after the dinner? How do I escalate up to this point during the date? I feel like I'm getting a lot of mixed signals when she says she wants to fuck but have the date just be dinner.