can get make outs but struggle to pull back to mine.

A_Wild_Zeus_Chase · 2022-10-10T05:54:33+00:00

Many times if a girl is with friends, if you want success that night, not only do you have to romance the girl, but you’ll have to charm her friends too.

I would say most women will not be super supportive of a random dude taking their friend away for the rest of the night, both for safety and logistical reasons. A “wing girl” is not a term for a reason.

Similarly, a woman with friends knows this, and will not let herself come back with you if she feels she’ll be judged by them for it. She’ll always value those relationships more than the brief and potentially fleeting one with you.

What’s interesting about it is, that whole process can work in reverse. Engage with her, transition to her group, charm her friends, disengage at some point to give them time to discuss, and if they like you, they’ll essentially “social proof” you to the woman for you, at which point she’ll come back with you easily since she’s already gotten her friend group’s blessing.

However, that takes an advanced bit of game, so it’s probably safer to acknowledge she’ll need to get back to her friends and just get the number, since a date will always increase percentages drastically compared to a cold pickup, but hey, don’t let that stop you from trying.

MissionAd399 · 2022-10-10T04:33:45+00:00

Me personally I usually say I have liquor back at the crib cause a lot of these girls just wanna keep partying and have fun. They know if they leave the club they can’t get “more lit” anymore so they wanna know they can go some place where they can keep having fun that isn’t as simple as “getting dicked down”

James_Cruse · 2022-10-10T22:22:09+00:00

I’m in Australia and I mostly pull girls from clubs but I have been doing alot of daygame.

If you’re dancing with them and they’re just going back to their friends (their friends didn’t actuall PULL them away - which isn’t the case here) it’s because you weren’t leading the escalation while with her (dancing) or after.

You need to be making solid eye contact while dancing, touching her, leading and having fun while dancing.

Then, this is crucial, move around with her in the venue or to another location: invite her to come get a drink at the bar and lead her there, invite her back to another part of the club to talk a little, then to another area of the club, then ask her to get some food or go somewhere quiet for a walk outside.

If she doesn’t want to leave the club yet or wants to continue her night, just go back to the dancefloor again or lead her to another club.

Lead Lead Lead and move move move.

CometAzur42069 · 2022-10-11T05:15:04+00:00

Club game is pretty much impossible if your goal is to sleep with the hotter women. They just will not do a ONS with any attractive guy.

Hotter women dont go back with guys they just met, they MIGHT but in general they have less reason. They have lists of dudes that they know and keep around they could fuck where its more safe secure. You need to establish some form of familiarity or comfort (IE mutual friends/connection). This will increase arousal more than just grinding kissing etc.

great_account · 2022-10-10T15:52:58+00:00

Tbh I think if you're a good kisser, she'll get wet enough and not really give af what else is going on. Imo, don't jump down her throat. Be real patient and slow.

James_Cruse · 2022-10-10T22:21:45+00:00

I’m in Australia and I mostly pull girls from clubs but I have been doing alot of daygame.

If you’re dancing with them and they’re just going back to their friends (their friends didn’t actuall PULL them away - which isn’t the case here) it’s because you weren’t leading the escalation while with her (dancing) or after.

You need to be making solid eye contact while dancing, touching her, leading and having fun while dancing.

Then, this is crucial, move around with her in the venue or to another location: invite her to come get a drink and lead her there, invite her back to another part of the club to talk a little, then back to another part of the club, then ask her to get some food or go somewhere quiet for a walk.

If she doesn’t want to leave the club yet or wants to continue her night, just go back to the dancefloor again or lead her to another club.

Lead Lead Lead and move move move.

Title	can get make outs but struggle to pull back to mine.
Author	wannbetheverybest
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	October 10, 2022 4:26 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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