I remember through high-school and when I started college in my porn addicted hey-days, I literally had 0 "neediness" with girls. I could just hang out with girls and be free and not emotionally invested at all. I never had an urge or craving for sex with real women. It was like if I was offered it cool but if not I could just go watch a porno and I'd be just as happy. I could hang out with women as if they where just my male friends, like no expectations nothing, I'd like them as I'd like my male friends but I had no emotional investment.

The result was literally women coming on to me. They'd have their friends tell me to make a move because they are interested, or they'd full on come out themselves and tell me how attracted they are and what they want to do to me.

Back in these days, I could just kick it with a girl, go for a cruise go smoke a joint, just enjoy the time, listen to music, watch TV together. Whatever the fuck. And I was always 100% my true inner self, the guy who just does not give a fuck about anything or anyone. Not a rude person but not exactly a nice person either, just me.

I remember this absolute gorgeous Latina girl "drunkenly professed" her feelings towards me, I invited her over for another day and when the day came after some cuddling I just asked her for a blowjob and she said she didn't want to and I literally did not feel or care even a little bit. Not even a little tiny bit of disappointment that she was so "attracted" to me, came to my place, and then didn't end up wanting to do it. Not a single tiny spec of give a fuck was in me, despite not getting actual sex for months if not years up until this point. I was just like oh well *shrug*. And then she ended up doing it anyway.

And everyone said stop porn is so bad for your brain blah blah blah, so I did. And now 5 years later, every woman I interact with that is even a little attractive. I start fantasies, thinking about how awesome it would be, how bad I want it. Basically I've already had sex with her 10 times before I've even went on a single date with her. So I become over invested, attached, needy, over analyzing, overthinking, basically everything bad that you can be.

So honestly, can porn be a useful crutch for a seduction beginner. Kind of a tool to "have abundance" for the time being until you build real abundance. Could it actually be useful.