Can someone explain Push/Pull to me with an example?

beanpudd · 2011-01-09T19:54:39+00:00

Compliment, followed by disqualifying statement.

Her: blah blah blah

you: I'm impressed by your ability to have a quality conversation, you're at least the 8th most interesting girl I have met today.

her: omg wtf 8th please validate me

you: Just kidding, you're the third most interesting, but definitely have the cutest dimples. It's too bad I'm too _________ for you.

a1studmuffin · 2011-01-10T04:51:13+00:00

Approach a girl on the street. Push her over. Pull her along by her hair. Works every time.

FLPUA · 2011-01-10T01:08:09+00:00

"Hey, you want some ice cream?" smiles while giving her the icecream jug.

"But only two scoops okay? Those are homemade icecream I made them myself" - pushing her away, framing icecream are more important to you than her.

"Oh okay, you can have three scoops then because I like you and you are cute" - You giving her your delicious icecream as a sign you want her.

"Hey! You took 4 scoops. Stop it" BAMM punch her lightly in the arm.

"Okay lets eat!" and then chow down your delicious, mouthwatering icecream!

This is a secret I dont want to tell guys but since seddist community is nice I dont mind sharing. Girls love icecream!! Ever tried to talk to a hot girl and she blew you away? I feel ya. Now this time go up to her with an icecream cone. Just stand there and lick your icecream cone while smiling. You dont even have to look at her, just give her a look every few licks. Odds are she will talk to you. Try this out, it might seems hard to believe but it works every time!

Vurv · 2011-01-10T15:55:56+00:00

You have to be careful to not appear like you're "playing games" though. If you keep doing it, and doing it, and doing it, you appear indecisive in your words and actions.

With that in mind, it's simply flirting. If yall are holding hands, comment on how sweaty her palms are and throw her hand away, while wiping your hand off on her. Just small things that are funny and enough to elicit a reaction out of her.

Or like commenting that her smile would be a lot cuter without the thing stuck between her teeth (while mimicking that she has something stuck in her teeth).

A favorite of mine is to get playfully close to her face, look her in the eyes, and then offer her a breath mint.

2011-01-09T21:59:15+00:00

You are either the most genius, or absolutely craziest person I have ever met. I'm not sure.

n0c0ntr0l · 2011-01-09T21:22:04+00:00

In short:

IOI:IOD or reverse.

You're a decent conversationalist, shame I only go for blondes (if she is brunette)

ryno55 · 2011-01-10T00:35:10+00:00

You build up the tension. It's the same principle behind two steps forward, one step back.

2011-01-11T00:34:22+00:00

I always thought Flexo from futurama was a great example of push/pull http://www.comedycentral.com/videos/index.jhtml?title=flexo&videoId=155998

Title	Can someone explain Push/Pull to me with an example?
Author	maddawg579
Upvotes	39
Comments	34
Date	January 9, 2011 7:24 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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