Abundance. This is a word that's thrown around a lot. The idea is that you're so content that you don't exhibit needy behavior.

It's easy to be abundant if you're 25. Why ? Because your dating pool is huge. There's no need to worry. I know because this is how I felt at 25.

But what if you're older ? I'm soon to be thirty and I realized something this community often doesn't talk about. "Game" is great and all but let's talk facts : People of similar age, intelligence and/or education, age and physical attractiveness end up together. Actually, the higher the age difference, the higher the risk for divorce.

Let's say you're 29. You're still young but you know your dating pool is starting to shrink. However you do want do make up for lost time. But you also want to start a family at some point. How exactly is one to feel abundant in this case being aware the variables mentioned above ?

Let's make it harder. You're 45. Unless you're Leonardo Di Caprio, you can't be abundant women because your dating pool has shrunken immensely. Point being :

Abundance is the result of having real life options. This creates a feeling of abundance. It's not just bullshitting yourself into thinking you have woo woo abundance. Correct ?