Can you reverse a situation where you came off very needy?

Dodechaedron · 2021-09-07T06:46:09+00:00

You've been friendzoned. I don't think there's much other than that.

Brandonva804 · 2021-09-07T07:20:01+00:00

Women like this are the infamous attention seekers who suck all life from men wanting to be physical or date them. Best to let her go and gain back your self respect.

Also, punish yourself by going out and getting rejected at least five times this week for allowing her to lead you on. You have no idea how many chicks do this.

A couple of weeks ago I was with this girl and she showed me her phone full of guys just like you hoping and praying to date or sleep with her. I realized I’m glad that’s not me anymore as I use to be that guy. She got angry when I told her I don’t do friendships with women because I want to sleep with every women I’m friends with.

You should have seen how angry she got realizing she could not lock me into the friendzone if we stopping having sex. For some girls it’s like collecting the infinite stones when it comes to getting free attention from you guys.

They like being chased and lusted after. Next time you sleep with a girl with guy friends ask her how many male friends she got while dicking her down. You’ll be shocked!

LightAtEnd · 2021-09-07T07:06:13+00:00

You are her chat buddy

DependentAd1504 · 2021-09-07T07:28:51+00:00

First subtly Start saying no to her.

Reduce the attention span you give to her.

Make different plans with other girls and guys.

Don't be too Available bro. (Less is always more valued)

Make her feel that she can lose you.

Make her feel like she is not qualified for you and let her prove that she is, just never do this by being too Direct... Be more playful.

Have the abundance mindset .

If she reacts positively use push pull technique and take it from there.

However,. If Still she doesn't react positively to you, then she never wanted that relationship with you.

Ghost her and move on to your goals respectfully.

Always remember one, Girls love to chase but the opposite is not true...

thelambofdeth · 2021-09-07T07:03:04+00:00

Lolno

btrpb · 2021-09-07T13:08:08+00:00

This post is needy. Drop it. Follow new leads.

PatientAssociation62 · 2021-09-07T15:19:34+00:00

One nicety with women being driven by emotions is that you can use that to your advantage. It's definitely possible to re-attract a woman who ghosted you, friendzoned you, etc. Like others have said, pull back and see what happens. And decide for yourself that you are NOT going to be an option but rather a priority.

M0dsRGay69 · 2021-09-07T17:59:30+00:00

She already told you straight up. You’re coming in too strong. Lay off and let her live her life a little and live yours.

It doesn’t mean cut her off completely and be a jerk. But just back off a bit. Absence makes the heart grow fonder

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-09-09T03:24:52+00:00

You reverse it by acting the opposite way,… that is act as if you are already over her, talk to other girls, always be more busy, never have time to text her or to hang out with her.

Basically act as if you want nothing already with her for a month or so and let her do the chasing

That also means you need to forget about hanging with her for a while you need to let things cool off, and let it dry, almost as if you have lost interest.

Title	Can you reverse a situation where you came off very needy?
Author	bojanglez34
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	September 7, 2021 6:38 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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