Cheat sheet for newer readers...

Davethelion · 2012-01-30T23:23:13+00:00

Oh God, I've been doing this for almost 2 years and I feel the same way.

1) Just be a fun, social guy when you're out. I think if how you present yourself to a group (and your target) is just as a fun, social person who talks to everyone and enjoys it, you come off as higher value and less threatening. So, talk to everybody in the group where your target is. The fat guy with them, the married girl with them, everyone. And actually listen to what they say. Your girl will be impressed and her friends are less likely to get in the way then.

2) Escalate physically. There is some tension between this and #1. You have to escalate and show your intentions at some point, and waiting too long is bad. Start small...hand, hair, etc. Then, if she's cool with that, you can have your arm around her, making out, etc.

3) Don't get too drunk. One of the biggest mistakes guys make in night game. Very few girls (not none, but few, and usually not quality ones) want some wasted guy coming up to them. Plus, lotta other bad things can happen to you if you're too drunk.

2012-01-30T23:29:51+00:00

Never get too up in your head. As soon as you see a chick approach to minimize the mental masturbation. Don't worry about what to say: if you keep your head clear it comes to you.
Silence is only awkward if you're awkward about it.
Failure is how we learn. Learn to love it, too. If you enjoy the journey then every set is a victory.

Level_75_Zapdos · 2012-01-31T03:17:36+00:00

1) Eye contact

2) Kino

3) Calm/Unreactive/outcome independent

r-win · 2012-01-31T16:57:02+00:00

these are the most important and basic.

0: beliefs (this is one main reason many guys don't approach)

1: eye contact (learn to spot interest and show interest)

2: kino (try to do it on everyone / show liking without words)

3: conversation skills (opening/rapport/seduction)

4: body language (smile/posture/how you walk)

6: logistics (where you gonna have sex)

three most important are 1,2,3, get these handled and rest of it easy. good luck.

shakedown_st · 2012-01-31T14:57:14+00:00

Yeah, I felt the same way when I started reading all of this stuff a couple months back. The information can be overwhelming - and it's kind of a culture shock in a way.

I used to be FA, so I created /r/faimprovement that kind of simplifies and organizes everything so that it is easier to absorb. I'm not saying my way is the right way at all, but it's definitely helpful for those just starting out. If anything, it helps people get motivated to find their own path which is the most important aspect of all.

Savario · 2012-01-31T05:10:06+00:00

You're doing it oh so wrong...

Stop treating this as a god damn high school test. The sidebar is not a textbook and the girls are not the test questions! Absorb the info written there; do not memorize and regurgitate it to the amazing women you meet in your life.

Here's the ONE thing I would do: Go slowly. Set up small goals for yourself and build up momentum with your confidence until you become truly outcome independent and are enjoying life, whether a girl is with you or not.

Title	Cheat sheet for newer readers...
Author	monsterspeed
Upvotes	20
Comments	12
Date	January 30, 2012 10:39 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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