Club escalation

Social_Teapot · 2024-09-11T19:57:31+00:00

This isn’t direct escalation but a tactic I think is super effective.

I’ll prefix it by saying, that I’m not proud as a predominantly non smoker (socially smoke if drinking).

Ask to for a smoke… smoking area are gold mines + if she says yes she’s clearly interested.

Also in a smoking area, asking if they have a lighter is a good way to create chat.

My country you can not smoke unless in a designated area of a club or outside.

Prestigious_Water336 · 2024-09-11T06:41:20+00:00

Start getting closer to her and invading her personal space (in a good way). Make good strong eye contact but don't stare.

Start touching her more and when the time is right (you'll know it) go for the kiss.

srwat · 2024-09-11T09:00:27+00:00

If you just break the touch barrier while not bringing any attention to it, and you're not afraid to do it again for each further organic opportunity that presents itself, everything just falls into place.

Dandys3107 · 2024-09-11T12:18:16+00:00

Sit close to her where you can easily touch her, whisper in her ear, look her directly in the eyes and keep coming closer.

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2024-09-12T04:33:31+00:00

dude this has been figured out in the books, go to the books !, don't cherry pick stuff here, read about mystery's kiss test for instance, well you are doing good, it took neil strauss nearly 6 months to break the kiss barrier, he says he would go out with beautiful women but was stuck in that part but he managed to do it

playboidarky · 2024-09-12T04:33:27+00:00

I got you my man here are two ways I do it

1: Ask her to hit the dance floor. You want to lead her by almost dragging her with you. Stay on the perimeter for easy exit. Hand on her hips. Vibe. Bring her in once the time has come.

2: Ask her to grab a drink. You want to lead her behind you holding her hand. When you’re ordering have your arm around her waist. Ask her what she wants and pay. Find a seat afterwords then get close.

The main point here is that you want to gain ground physically. I’m sure you wouldn’t just grab her by the hips at first sight, but after an hour, it’s completely ok.

You have to break that physical barrier. It starts with you rubbing arms, bumping into each other. Work your way up and it’ll be fine.

Good luck.

Title	Club escalation
Author	No_Panda64
Upvotes	5
Comments	9
Date	September 11, 2024 6:26 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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