Cold approach and bad luck

postbody · 2024-08-24T05:25:29+00:00

Not ugly and those are rookie numbers. Set aside 3 months to go out every thu, fri and sat and hit on as many girls as possible. I’m talking like 10 approaches a night minimum. It will suck and be cringe annoying and embarrassing but by the end of it you’d have developed a good base for social skills which is really what’s holding you back, not your looks. The fact you even think it’s about looks tells me how absolutely terrified you are of approaching women. You’d rather think you’re ugly than acknowledge that you don’t know how to talk to women

testylentil · 2024-08-24T07:14:13+00:00

Bro first of all your IG ain't it 🤦 Take it down, it's giving Taxi Driver, and will probably cause women to avoid you if they look you up.

I'd never have an IG if it weren't for women being uncomfortable with my lack of social media. So I put a page together but kept it palatable. Warm colors, universally cool scenarios, friendly, high quality photo and video. But don't try too hard, and if you want to post anything raw, use an anonymous account or something.

Elon-Musk-It · 2024-08-24T05:17:39+00:00

I’ve been wondering this same thing

Dzxrz · 2024-08-24T07:42:03+00:00

Your looks have nothing to do with it. You only have to keep putting yourself out there and above all never doubt yourself not even for half a sec. When you approach them confidently like a real man, girls will respond. Don't come off as soft or cheesy. What I mean by cheesy is, don't approach in a weak way. Approach deliberately not half assed. Women want a man with balls to come up to them. Be laid back and relaxed too, don't overthink things. Approach from strength without worrying about outcome.

zebekias · 2024-08-24T08:29:59+00:00

Pickup is an art, you can literally make cold approaches feel a lot “warmer” out of thin air, little things make a big difference.

Open with your body facing away from her
Time constraint
Disqualify
social proof (be seen with others, that can be engineered too, if you are alone in a venue)
preselection (be seen with girls, that can be engineered too, if you are alone in a venue)

Many keyboard-theoreticians know about these, but I’ve seen guys forget to implement them when in action, including (initially) myself.

When you are learning, just focus on one of the above (eg: body facing away) at a time, then add more. Eventually you do them without thinking.

COMFORT-ARLINGTON · 2024-08-24T06:20:10+00:00

this is not how dating goes, however, it is how cold approach goes. i know a guy who did 40k approaches. he said he gets lots of phone numbers but no calls back

thundernlightning97 · 2024-08-24T07:09:13+00:00

Asked 3 women at the gym within the past year for their snaps all 3 gave them to me. One has a bf. Another one never bothered messaging me. The other messaged me a bit then once I told her she's beautiful she blocked me. I stopped talking to her in person after that but she still will get close to me physically (feel like she's definitely playing games a lot of the young pretty ones do)

DaygameCode · 2024-08-24T19:13:36+00:00

Read books on how to pick up girls. There is Models and also Mystery Method for example and they will open your eyes into a whole world of pick up skills, flirting skills, rizz, how to act and everything. Giving you tons of tricks and techniques you can use to attract women. That's how you can learn basics to improve your chances with women. Your problem is assuming that cold approach does not require skills. It does, and you don't have those skills. You are just approaching her without any skills or strategy in the approach, just going there to see what happens and get rejected. Don't talk to women if you really don't have any idea how to seduce them. Cold approach is not gonna make women like you by itself if you don't understand how to flirt and seduce them.

Title	Cold approach and bad luck
Author	MushroomIll1703
Upvotes	6
Comments	31
Date	August 24, 2024 5:01 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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