Cold Approach Or?

pua_max · 2022-02-19T10:26:13+00:00

I like seducing girls I just met during the daytime. Call it a hobby of mine. I can talk you through all the struggles I went through, but to get to results, I was seeing 5 women at the same time last summer (3 from pure street cold approach, 1 from a networking event, 1 from a shared hobby). This was when I was a student and making no money. I now make in the top 5% of US incomes. Nothing has changed since then. I’ll go to a coffee shop tomorrow and chat up some women. They won’t have any idea of how much money I make. But they can see the personality and core beliefs I’ve honed over the years.

Not to say that building up yourself to attract women to you isn’t a good thing to do. Maybe you can do that until women are falling over themselves for you. But I think attraction is overhyped. You’d be surprised at how many women feel some level of attraction for you. It’s removing all the non-attraction based barriers between you and her that’s the hard part.

PaleontologistNo2785 · 2022-02-19T16:52:56+00:00

Youll never reach dan b level. If you bust your ass for 10 years plus, maaayyybe youll be a millionaire. Even then u need game. Otherwise your sense of selfworth will be tied to your money. You can get laid while being a broke bum if u approach enough. So i dont know u do u.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-02-20T05:42:09+00:00

No. There’s nothing you’re getting out of this experience except rejection. Cold approaching is usually going to end in rejection. Women have their defenses up and are least likely to be open to an encounter when you just go up to them and randomly try and hit on them. Sign up for a class, volunteer for something you care about, learn a sport women like to play. Put yourself in a shared environment where a woman has a chance to get to know you around other people over time.

mraees93 · 2022-02-19T12:00:51+00:00

U tried warm approach yet?

FancyChilli · 2022-02-19T10:19:21+00:00

Well, with regards to the last approach mate, for one thing, nowt in life is guaranteed. You can drop dead tomorrow chasing the almighty dollar, furthermore if you're going to go down the path of say Dan Bilzerian, one has to ask what sort of character you will attract. Are they their for you or the money? As opposed to getting with someone where you're both of an equal footing and can level up together.

TheRealestBiz · 2022-02-19T14:36:14+00:00

Yes.

wdbreneprod · 2022-02-20T13:36:38+00:00

I get what you mean , by quietly working on yourself and making your own scoreboard. Seeking rejection is in my opinion a healthy way how to start with discipline if he or she hasn't developed it yet.

Seeking rejection on daily basis will gradually make you feel less insecure about your own steps , while you're working in silence your are still seeking the specific type of rejection which could potentially motivate you to overcome it by stacking confidence.

This process is indeed recommended for people who has severe problems with anxiety and lack of self-confidence/self-esteem.

What I recommend is that , you should seek places where there could be a specific type of rejection but only few times when you need it. I find myself in a place where I have been working on myself but didn't knew really Why I have been doing this work or if it really pays off.

Rejection will give you rational perspective on the fact how you view yourself and the people around you. It could - Shatter your ego for good so you can start building REAL confidence Or It could potentially beat down your insecurities.

Title	Cold Approach Or?
Author	dario_kai
Upvotes	4
Comments	25
Date	February 19, 2022 9:57 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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