Cold Approach works

2021-07-24T04:40:40+00:00

I just wanted to share the success, first girl I’ve ever cold approached

skyrunner22 · 2021-07-24T05:43:39+00:00

Congrats dude.. That feeling when you see it work, something you werent doing before pay dividends when you start. Its beautiful.. Keep going, there are many levels.. You have to experience rejection, you have to experience the spark to know when you can read the code in matrix.. you have to develop the skill.. Its awesome

Heheheneral · 2021-07-24T04:19:22+00:00

Not all women interested in you even if they give they number, however if you can get one interested in you,keep her but dont be needy or obsessive.

GuaranteeOwn5108 · 2021-07-24T05:55:17+00:00

Keep approaching, cold approach during the day is so “easy” beats the bar or club by far…, I didn’t start getting the women I wanted until I gave up on drinking and cold sober approach was my only option… Good job man, you’ll be getting many more.

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2021-07-24T04:00:37+00:00

Hm. Dude. Just. Do. Not. Stop. On. One. #.

Keep it up. With options!!👆👆

2021-07-24T20:05:25+00:00

That takes some balls, elaborate on the convo and the texting that followed.

2021-07-24T07:51:41+00:00

I started researching cold approaches a few weeks ago as I went through a breakup. I just didn’t hesitate when I went up to her and didn’t give myself a chance to be nervous. When I realised what I was doing I was already mid conversation. It works I want any lonely dudes to know that it works. However you have to work on yourself. Be a man that a woman would want! Look good, dress well, have goals, be confident, achieve your goals. Have something going for you in your life before trying to find a women. Women love a man that is valued.

Blackmetalpenguin90 · 2021-07-24T08:36:53+00:00

I find that when you do it the first few times (or after a good while), your approach will be really authentic and eager, which actually helps build connection and attraction. But if you start to do it serially and see it as a mechanistic process, the whole thing starts to go south. So I suggest you keep to approaching only when you are really attracted to someone.

2021-07-24T15:22:48+00:00

Way to go. Always celebrate your successes.

Mikinl · 2021-07-24T06:06:12+00:00

There is tiny line between working or not and between being scary freak or chaser and cute guy who aproached her. And difference between two make only fact if she like you or not.

Go_Brr · 2021-07-24T13:14:46+00:00

Ayeee congratulations you probably made her day too

Best of luck

2021-07-24T13:14:04+00:00

Wow mate congratz. You know what actually I cold approached a lady just like you the other day and ... got her number too. Definitely yeah cold approaches are the best. Funny thing is that she was in her early twenties while I'm in my early thirties. It's hard to cold approach but it works. Unlike dating apps lol. You see only obese ravaged women on there who never reply to you lol.

Just tell me about the setting though. What was she doing at the kiosk? Was she just typing on her phone or working there?

jinga92 · 2021-07-24T12:28:00+00:00

Dude, I once did a cold approach on a check in lady (stewardess?) for an airline when I was flying to Italy from NYC. I figured, what the hell, I’m only here for 5 min tops; got the number, texted her as I was boarding and saw her when I got back. Let me just say, it was great… my swagger that morning was legit. You have to give enough to make her want more and just be confident. I don’t know about all this “game” shit that gets mentioned here a lot, but confidence and quick/witty thinking have always been the most important things in my arsenal.

Gauge what kind of person she is when you meet her and you’ll know whether you can take her to a hotel or whatever cave you live in that same night.

VellaPunk · 2021-07-24T05:40:01+00:00

Yes ,always have options

adrianhorning · 2021-07-24T16:01:09+00:00

She was working though? Not the best time to approach

DesperateForDD · 2021-07-24T13:25:37+00:00

At bars/clubs everyone shows up in their groups making it harder to approach and i can never hold their attention. Day time approaches ftw

HideyourkidsForreal · 2021-07-24T14:26:17+00:00

Congrats man. Big step. Hoping to get there soon

-brax_ · 2021-07-24T17:17:44+00:00

That’s some motivation lads!

*chads, you meant

RulerK · 2021-07-24T08:19:41+00:00

Good job! But keep in mind, that shit doesn’t really work after age 30. Don’t waste too much time. Also, develop other skills too.

SpinPlates · 2021-07-24T07:55:55+00:00

Glad you got a number on your first approach and I don't want to kill your buzz but you just got a number. Women hand out numbers to pretty much any guy that isn't a creep or makes them feel threatened. She'll probably just lock you in as an Instagram orbiter and forget all about you.

Cold approach doesn't "work" being a top 20% male works. You didn't fuck that girl yet. Stay hungry. Keep going to the gym. Stay nutritionally disciplined. Work on your career. Pursue hobbies and be interesting. That's what works.

AutistNerd · 2021-07-24T18:47:35+00:00

Can you detail what did you say to her ? Cuz i saw a girl at a local walgreen was beautiful but don’t know what to say. Im kinda afraid that it will come out as “creepy” to her.

Qwertyytrewq122 · 2021-07-25T17:07:43+00:00

Congrats man 😃

Title	Cold Approach works
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Date	July 24, 2021 3:47 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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