Cold approaching New Zealand

earsurgery9 · 2020-12-24T17:28:46+00:00

I have no idea, having never been there

I'm only replying to advise you to ignore people who are like ''Girls are the same everywhere, bro. All game is universal''

I stupidly took that advice a few years back (despite instinctively feeling it wasn't true) and in the end my instincts proved correct. Shouldn't have listened to them

It can even be fairly small nuances. Like, the popular game teachers at the time (RSD from the US ) would always recommend to walk up to girls in the street or in a bar etc and introduce yourself as your opener.

That sounded so 'off' to me as a Brit, but when I brought up that concern, all the sheep were like ''Game is universal'', ''limiting beliefs'' blabla. Sure enough over time it was confirmed that in the UK, this really is an odd way to open a conversation lol. Unless a girl is expecting you at a job interview or something, walking up to her and introducing yourself is odd here.

That's one example out of literally hundreds. (could be 'negs', how direct you should be in general, touching etc etc etc). Everything varies based on your age, her age, your looks, her looks, location, etc

Best you can do is go out with some friends you have who do OK with girls, and see if you can copy their game (opener, convo subjects, general vibe). However, don't forget that none of this is magic. If she's not attracted to you, no 'game' in the world will get her in bed, so most of the time it wasn't down to your 'game'

Good luck

Brainless-Wonder · 2020-12-25T01:13:06+00:00

Small flightless birds are generally immobile so it shouldn’t be too difficult to approach them. Now’s your chance.

misskitten1313 · 2021-01-03T03:19:24+00:00

Don't do it. Women are strong minded and confident here. We'll tell you to fuck off. I've told plenty of creeps hitting on me in public where to go.

Josh52728 · 2021-04-29T06:28:24+00:00

I go out every weekend in Christchurch haha, it’s easy once you understand where your fuck ups are haha

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Who else is in Christchurch

TomfromNewZealand · 2020-12-25T00:32:44+00:00

I’m in NZ!

Andetag · 2021-01-02T04:10:31+00:00

There was a guy here named Hanan019 who approached 2 months straight in NZ. Worth looking up.

Title	Cold approaching New Zealand
Author	TomfromNewZealand
Upvotes	5
Comments	30
Date	December 24, 2020 1:35 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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