Cold hands and kino

2010-06-06T02:04:20+00:00

i would call myself out on it. and use it as an excuse to make contact.

poncedeleon · 2010-06-05T19:12:45+00:00

The trick with kino, especially early on, is to do it where nobody notices. So I would say if your hands are so cold that people jump when you touch them, this isn't good.

Don't let this stop you though, try to work around it. Like you mentioned, touch them on the shoulder or back. Or you could even work a routine with girls where you complain that your hands are cold and offer to let them feel.

I don't have any brilliant ideas, but I encourage you to work with or around your problems.

CunningDingus · 2010-06-06T05:14:07+00:00

If she calls you out, just follow with a "cold hands, warm heart!". Works brilliantly the other way too.

2010-06-06T13:49:39+00:00

Put your hands into your pockets for a couple of minutes, just make sure that they don't come out sweaty

ReplaceLuckWithSkill · 2010-06-09T18:23:23+00:00

This could be a legitimate opener: "Can I hold your hand? I'm kind of cold". (They see that you are actually cold). Then later "I'm not so cold anymore, but let's continue doing this, it's kind of fun!".

Sublomino · 2010-06-05T23:19:34+00:00

You might just have naturally cold hands. Or, it could be from nervousness or anxiety. Maybe you have poor circulation and need to get some exercise, or you have too much stress. I think these can all be factors with cold hands. So, you should consider that, but if your hands are just naturally cold, then learning to have self-acceptance about your hands can benefit you. If someone comments on it and says you have cold hands, you can say "I'm glad you like them. Thanks for noticing."

Also, kino doesn't have to be skin on skin contact, you can touch someone through their clothes, or touch someone with other parts of your body such as walking arm-in-arm, or putting your arm around someone.

Title	Cold hands and kino
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Date	June 5, 2010 4:37 PM UTC (16 years ago)
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