Coming across as creepy

Iknowmyabds · 2014-04-18T15:39:00+00:00

http://www.absoluteability.com/dating/creeping-girls-out-yay/

You're going to creep out girls no matter what. ANd girl always have abritrary and stupid reasons for thinking you're creepy. I've had girls call me creepy ranging from things to just saying Hi and for "making too much eye contact".

That being said, if possible it is always better to hit on girls you know you will never see again. Like at bars, colleges you don't go to, etc. Thats cuz when you're starting out and are therefore more likely to fail, it is always better to have that anonymity. If the girls you're hitting on are people your friends know, I'm guessing you'e gaming on your own college campus?

ThePUA_Baddie · 2014-04-18T15:27:21+00:00

In order to not come across as creepy you have to lay your intentions out in the open. You have to say that you wanted to come over and talk to her because you thought she was cute. Once that's out you just continue vibing. Be honest about your intentions. And you don't have to leave first, if she's still staying when she has a choice to leave then you stay and just keep talking.

rangamatchstick · 2014-04-18T21:36:20+00:00

Ugh. This again.

Creepy has become a social construct which provides women with an easy way out when they can't articulate exactly why they aren't attracted to you and can't quite place you in a zone of friendship. When I think of creepy I think of an old guy in trench coat masturbating on park bench, not some average looking dude who may have said the wrong thing here and there.

Just brush it off and try and find out the reason why you aren't appealing to women (which by the way isn't because you're creepy). In most cases its because you're being too forward too quickly or you aren't aesthetically gifted.

AnonyBot32 · 2014-04-18T16:40:33+00:00

Yeah, coming across as nervous while also coming across as trying too hard can create a "creepy" combination. So gain more confidence, move quickly from "asking a lot of questions" to having a real conversation, and then just walk away if they lose interest.

mindfully_liberated · 2014-04-18T16:45:36+00:00

Recently I started getting feedback from people who know the girls im hitting on

Nigga that shit is creepy.

People are usually creeped out by guys that are really socially awkward, try grabbing a friend and joining in on group conversations to learn how to act and talk correctly.

You can't just walk up to a girl in broad day light and start flirting. Shit's weird as fuck.

Title	Coming across as creepy
Author	rangamatchstick
Upvotes	1
Comments	22
Date	April 18, 2014 3:16 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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