Confidence, assertiveness, boldness?

DaygameCoach · 2015-07-26T15:45:59+00:00

Embrace AA? Murder AA...strangle it till it's dead.

It's only rejection is you see it that way. If she is inappropriate for you (gay, uninterested, only liked 3 foot tall men with mohawks, not single, having a bad day)...she si doing you a favor by getting the heck out your away. A YES or a NO are good things because they don't waste your time like a MAYBE would.

Oh, looks matter (as do game, confidence, dress style, etc), but many things matter...it's a package. Plenty of short chubby guys get women.

Cuisine, daygamer.net

circusmeerkat · 2015-07-26T15:35:11+00:00

You're going to want to be confident regardless. You have to realize that not every girl is going to like you, and that is 100% okay. Keep going out, projecting your confidence, dress well, and you'll see results. Practice and persistence is key.

Morokweng · 2015-07-26T22:50:56+00:00

Are you just putting on some kind of 'bold assertive confident' act, and wondering why it's not working?

How do you feel? What kind of thing do you say?

jayhovaasmywitness · 2015-07-27T04:49:21+00:00

LOL looks dont matter okay bud good luck

Llleblanc1986 · 2015-07-27T04:55:40+00:00

Its not all about YOU, bro, its a 50/50. The woman is either down to fuck/date or she isn't, no matter how confident or handsome you are..its about filtering out the ones that aren't trying to be with you, and getting with the ones that are down to be with you..Even if you have low confidence, its still a numbers game and there ARE gonna be live ones.

jonnyhaldane · 2015-07-27T07:15:16+00:00

The more you do day game, the more you realise that it is often about the girl - her receptiveness, her tastes and her perception of you.

I cannot count the amount of times I have had a girl brutally reject me, and then 5 minutes later I am talking to some other girl who thinks I'm the shit. We are laughing, flirting, and having a great time together.

So the fact is, there is a random component to all of this. Even with amazing game and great looks, you are probably still going to fail more than you succeed. But that's ok. It's not about succeeding with every woman - it's about finding the ones that are right for you.

Title	Confidence, assertiveness, boldness?
Author	Velcade6
Upvotes	10
Comments	7
Date	July 26, 2015 2:34 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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