DAE mostly attracts low self-esteem women?

itsmevichet · 2013-04-23T18:08:21+00:00

Considering I'm short (5'6") and Asian, I think my market is smaller than others here.

Your low self-esteem limits you to others of lower self-esteem.

Think about that. You can't change your height. You can't change your ethnicity. You can either love or hate yourself for them.

Right now, you're sure that they're working against you - it might be true on some level, but I'd bet money you're fixated on it more than you should be.

So, it doesn't surprise me that girls you end up with have the exact same issues they're working through.

Sincerely,

-An Asian guy who has been there (except for the height... but even at your height, there's tons of girls under 5'6"... like, most of them)

MarsayMarsac · 2013-04-23T19:17:21+00:00

I have same experience, im also short guy. I think main issue is in ourselves. I was quite thankful when I got my first low self-esteem girl(she limped a little). Then I taught her all that I had learned about self-confidence and now, well, she has become super-confident and cheated me with two guys while being my lover and cheating his husband and... so, now i have another low self-esteem girl and she is so needy and clingy, I can't believe(warning for all). What I was trying to say is that please avoid them, I have learned it hard way. And sex is usually bad.

TheCuriousDude · 2013-04-23T17:04:39+00:00

Screen what kind of girls you talk to. Be more picky.

It's also possible that you've reached such a level of confidence in yourself, that everyone else seems insecure.

Bjarmi92 · 2013-04-23T17:03:31+00:00

check out dj fuji the pua .. he's your guy ;) he's asian, short and specialises in asian guys :)

TolarianFapper · 2013-04-23T18:50:10+00:00

There will always be girls who dismiss you due to height and ethnicity. You can't win them all.

That being said, you also have high standards, so you'll have to play better. Girls with higher self-esteems have a lot more going on in their lives than their low self-esteem counterparts. Thus, you're gonna have to work on the other parts of your life other than seduction. Higher value girls tend to look at a guy holistically rather than just by their social skills. Are you truly exciting or do you just portray it? Do you have a growing career or are you complacent? Are you social in any environment you're in or are you just cool when you want to seduce? Do you drive yourself to be the fittest you can be or are you just settling for mediocrity? Once you figure the rest of your life out, seduction becomes a lot easier - cool people only fuck other cool people. On another level, there's a huge difference between self-acceptance and self-actualization. Found out where you are and push it to the limit. Peace dawg.

2013-04-23T19:46:45+00:00

DAE hate these fucking acronyms?

Pugilanthropist · 2013-04-24T02:14:37+00:00

"And the sad thing is, it works… not on all women, but it works. Women with any confidence will pass up a Fake Alpha in a heartbeat. She sees right through his macho veneer. But low self-esteem women, particularly women with dump-truck loads of emotional baggage — particularly the type of women getting drunk in night clubs regularly — will gladly subject themselves to the abuse."

Guy's good.

kw1234 · 2013-04-24T07:48:07+00:00

what you can do though is improve your physical look by doing things like working out and getting a beast haircut. Im a 6'1 white guy but my hair isnt nearly as cool as asians'

Hope_of_Chinese_Dota · 2013-04-24T16:14:55+00:00

Dont be someone with a napoleon complex. Best behumble

harold_holt · 2013-04-26T16:16:58+00:00

Make more money. Increase your social status.

OmgItsMrTinkles · 2013-04-26T17:26:44+00:00

Hey I'm in the exact same boat as you are, not in the attracting low self-esteem women but in the ethnicity and height department. I am a 5'6" Korean guy, and I used to be super self conscious about my height. After learning about all the routines, materials, etc. and just going out with a don't give a fuck attitude, I have had immense success.

So many of my friends think I'm completely BSing them about my success with girls until they see me in action, which makes my inner game that much stronger. One of the things I did to really help me boost my inner game was to deal with the height issue. I hate to admit this, but something that really helped out with this is to just go on Amazon and buy some elevator insoles. http://www.amazon.com/Height-Increase-Elevator-Shoes-Insole/dp/B003W7IWBM/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1366996679&sr=8-1&keywords=elevator+shoes

I just gave myself an inch of height and that seriously boosted my confidence. A lot of taller guys really take their height for granted, but for us short guys, every inch is so dramatic. Once I felt as if height was no longer a major issue since 5'7" is about average, I went out and made some major headway. I've even had success with girls who were 6 feet + wore huge heels.....

Overall, don't let your race, height, or any other excuses make you think that your market is limited. There is no limit except for the ones you set yourself.

Title	DAE mostly attracts low self-esteem women?
Author	Night-watcher
Upvotes	16
Comments	25
Date	April 23, 2013 4:28 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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