It's been a little over 2 years since I lost my virginity. I'm making a few observations about game, looking at some of my own data and curious to see how some of yours match up. It is pretty strange to organize your partners in a data set, but I thought it'd be fun to do, data is cool as fuck, and it can tell you a lot about a person.

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I'm 23, slept with 16 women, been in 3 relationships. I'm pretty short. These are pretty subjective, but just to give you a better idea of what I'm like & what has gotten me results, I'd give myself 6.5/10 in looks, maybe 9/10 in personality & general social skills, 8/10 career, & 7/10 in game

Conclusions:

  • Where we met: 50% (7) of my hookups came from tinder. 19% comes from nightgame (3), 19% with social circle (3), and 13% with daygame
    • Day-game has had the highest success rate in terms of time/lay, significantly faster than (approx total of 7-10 hours of approaching for 2 lays after the date). Both conversations with successful day-game approaches lasted around 20 minutes with initial approach. Both happened within the last 2 months
    • Tinder comes in with the lowest success rate/ active use over 2 years (est. 200 hours+, although a majority of them happened within the last 6 months probably because of covid + better photos)
  • Where we are now: 9 ended in blocking/ghosting (56%), 3 still in contact with to any capacity (19%), and 4 lost contact with (25%)
    • From the 9 that ended up poorly, 5 I ghosted/blocked, 4 ghosted/blocked me
  • Relationships: 3 relationships. 19% of hookups became relationships. 66% of relationships came from social circle
    • Interesting to note that 0% of relationships came from Tinder
  • Race/Ethnicity: I’m most likely to attract black women (7) (my dating preferences are not specific to race by any means, but more about beauty, personality, etc), next is white (5). Rest are eastern, not specifying to avoid giving away too much info. Also certainly worthy of note is that I’ve continuously tried to get with Latina women and have continuously failed
  • Average age disparity: I'm older by 1 year and 4 months on average
  • Average height disparity (this was based on fairly inaccurate information- my memory): 3 inches
  • Cool random facts about this data set:
    • 1 girl was dating someone during time of our hookup
    • 2 women were older than me (2 and 3 years)
    • 2 women were taller than me (3 and 4 inches)
    • 0 girls I dated in any capacity before having sex
    • 1 month and 15 days on average in between each new partner
    • Data was taken from 6 different cities I've lived in over the past 2 years
    • 9 girls I slept with wanted to date me (I initiate sex but never relationships)
    • 7/10 is the median attractiveness of the girls I've slept with. 6/10 is the average
      • I recognize this is both very subjective, and also not the kindest way to view women. That being said, I find it a nice measure of me steadily finding partners of higher quality with self improvement and practice, and it is also incredibly difficult to describe the qualities of someone without using numbers if photos can't be provided