Dating while unemployed

HitFacedBitch · 2016-02-01T04:11:16+00:00

I wouldn't push a friend to do anything they didn't want to. Do you want to be a dick, OP? Because that's how you can become a dick..

ThrowawayPUA · 2016-02-01T04:13:46+00:00

Go find the book Nine Ball by Jeffy of RSD. He describes how he started doing pickup when he was living in his van in a garage in San Francisco.

sdonaghy · 2016-02-01T04:22:09+00:00

I wouldn't recommend it, not having a job can really undermine a man's confidence because as men in this day in age we are defined by what you do. Think about it, most jobs are titles that men where as badges as who they are and what they want. Fireman, policeman, hedge fund manager, Chief Executive Officer, Accountant, bike messenger, chipotle burrito wrapper, lawyer, marketing specialist. I bet you have a picture in your head of a man that does each one of those jobs. As i am sure you know no confidence = no woman.

DaygameCoach · 2016-02-01T04:23:18+00:00

If he isn't ready, he isn't ready. Don't push him into it. You can do it on your own.

This post isn't really about the subject line...which is a bit misleading.

TheXXL · 2016-02-01T14:05:56+00:00

He can afford the dates but just fears the stigma (even though he went to a respected college).

Been there, and i can say it´s hard to do when not having a job gets to you. For me it was devastating, took away most of my confidence. I had a few dates during that time, most of them didnt go anywhere, maybe due to my lack of confidence, or not, but i had one date that explicitly stated that it was a no go for her to date an unemployed guy.

Anything I can say to make him do it with me? Thanks

Tell him the truth. It can be hard, but not neccessarily. People judge, and this cant be changed either. Some women don´t care, some do. If he can handle that, he should do it. If he can´t, he should work on his confidence first, either that being employed, being ok with himself the way he is, or just living on his own.

fourtwentyandfour · 2016-02-01T15:10:06+00:00

How old are you?

Title	Dating while unemployed
Author	starwars765
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	February 1, 2016 4:07 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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