Day game mental block

OpinionThink481 · 2026-01-10T22:48:10+00:00

- I feel a certain sympathy for girls (especially good looking ones) that they might be getting eyeballs/attention from guys everywhere they go

If you wanna be a mister nice guy, you should know that mister nice guys finish last. Many women like to play the victim hard as if they are poor damsels in distress.

The reality is every woman is different. Some get upset that they don't get approached ever, others that they get approach all the time. And some might like to be approached only by some guys, not all.

You do not base your actions on trying to walk on egg shells or treating women as if they are fragile, you base your actions on what you want and give yourself permission to approach simply because you want to and the fact that you want to is all the legitimization you need.

Never treat girls as if they are weak, fragile, innocent, naive, and victims. Treat them as if they are like guys or even worst than guys and you'll get far closer to their real nature.

It's really problematic to engage in the dating world with a mindset where you think dating is undesirable for women, because then at any minimum challenge from the girl you'll start being apologetic, weak and justifying yourself which is a turn off.

You need to have the full conviction that approaching any girl you want is perfectly fine simply because you say so, and if someone challenges you on it, you double down, you reaffirm yourself, and you never say sorry.

You are not here to be a people's pleaser. You are here to pursue your goals and if you don't, other guys will and succeed. The only limit is if a woman tells you "not interested", or stop, or "leave me alone", then you stop.

But approaching them is not a moral failing even if they are not interested in you, because there is nothing wrong about asking a woman that you'd like to get to know her. You are asking her for permission or consent and that's fine.

Distinct-Wash-6888 · 2026-01-11T00:39:26+00:00

You are ONE MILLLION PERCENT WRONG. If you don't literally act and feel like you are doing women a favor by introducing yourself and acting in command of your masculinity, then you should just recognize that you don't "get it." The DIFFERENCE between you and the guys who crush it are they would NEVER EVER EVER EVER have a dumb ass thought like yours. Your thought is logical. Women are emotional. If you pussy foot around apologizing for existing all you get it dick. Communication and sexual tension are the same 24 hours a day so stop making excuses. You're lucky this could be called out...if you treat women logically you get friends. You have to also get comfortable with the uncomfortable. You can be a little bitch and have a day vs. night mentality or you can just be the man 24/7. It' s lifestyle-not a decision or a time of the day. You have work to do and ways to go hombre. LFG.

FearInoculumTool · 2026-01-11T02:33:55+00:00

The problem isn’t that many other guys are interested in these girls or that they get attention or that they are hot. The problem is that you don’t believe you have anything of value that they need or want. You see yourself as a worthless worm who can only make their day worse.

But if deep inside yo ur heart and soul you knew you were cool, awesome, that women love you and want to fuck you and that any woman will be better off meeting you than not meeting you, you wouldn’t have any trouble approaching any girl you want. As a matter of fact, you would feel bad for not approaching them since you’d be d pricing them if the chance to meet an awesome guy.

ImpossibleWaiting · 2026-01-11T08:30:11+00:00

I haven't seen literally anyone approach girls and compliment girls besides other girls. Just walk the streets and you'll see that the most attention they get from men is looks, not words.

OpinionThink481 · 2026-01-10T22:44:19+00:00