I've never been a fan of indirect daygame.

I think it just wastes too much time. The analogy I give is it's like a guy walks up to you and sees you wearing a Chicago Bulls hat (random example) and starts talking to you about how good the team is and how this year is the year and he just builds rapport and connects with you. Then out of no where he goes "Hey man I'm actually homeless, do you have a dollar?"

He wasn't being genuine and so you feel cheated. As if that entire Chicago Bulls conversation was just a cover for his true intentions, the dollar. If he had straight up just asked for it, he may have had a better chance of getting it.

Get in frontI can't stress this enough. So many videos on youtube show a guy walking side by side with a girl and nothing could be more annoying. It's like a fly that won't go away. You aren't even giving her the option to end the conversation. If you get in front and she doesn't want to talk? She'll be able to walk around and leave.

Stand your groundJust because you got in front doesn't mean you should back pedal and walk backwards. Keep your feet planted.

​

Have empty hands

You aren't selling anything or asking for signatures, you are just there to talk. Keep your hands empty so she sees there isn't something else going on.

​

SMILE!

I've seen guys straight up frown when doing day game. This is a complete stranger, walk in with a smile on your face not an angry look

​

The opener

"Hi, I know this is a little random, I just thought you were cute and wanted to come and say hi" doesn't need to be any more complicated

​

The conversation

Just the way you would talk to your friend who you've known for 10 years, talk to her. Make the same jokes, tell the same stories, be you, don't be the 'game' version of you. Most guys who don't do well in daygame, do so because as soon as they talk to a girl, they flip into becoming a completely different person. Which brings me onto the next point:

​

Socialize don't 'Game'

When you're thinking of "I HAVE TO GET HER NUMBER" you create so much pressure. Think of it as you're being a man who is talking to a woman you've never met for the sake of conversation, remove pressure and enjoy the interaction without a hidden agenda.

​

Just ask

When it's winding down say you gotta run back to what you were doing and it would be cool if you guys grabbed coffee sometime, "What's your number?" Worst case scenario, she says no and walks away forever. Guess what, if you don't ask she's going to do the same thing anyway. I see it happen all the time where guys think the interaction is going so well that they don't want to ruin it by asking for the number. Why? So a complete stranger can have a pleasant thought of you and then never think of you again? You're there, take the shot.

( P.S I'm run an awesome facebook community where we discuss dating and self development tips. Feel free to join, ask questions or even give advice to someone else who has a question https://www.facebook.com/groups/moaforum )