strongest, highest success rate for initiation/escalation?

incognito3107 · 2022-10-30T06:20:21+00:00

Well, point is to get her hot and then suggest innocently to change places, of course for some more private environment.

Keep eye contact, lower your voice, get close to her, make that natural gentle touch, turn her on with funny/exciting/sexual topics. Getting sexual is always in the air, you just need to push proper buttons to make it smooth and natural.

James_Cruse · 2022-10-30T10:38:16+00:00

Firstly, if you’re approaching her, you’re in conversation and she’s participating in it then here are some escalations:

Move her somewhere - anywhere. Even if you only move her a step or two, lead her somewhere. Then keep moving her (preferably closer to house or somewhere for an instadate or sex location). E.g. First from the bar to the dancefloor, from the dancefloor to some seats from the seats to the balcony or smoking area, back to the bar then outside the club, then getting some food then ask her to come back to your house to see the view or something, anything.
Have intense eye contact at least 70%-80% of the time and add pauses to let her fill in the conversation. This gives her some room to feel the sexual tension and allows her to participate in the conversation. Keep the sexual tension high throughout.
Touch her - grab her hand & squeeze it (It’s on Moment - if she squeezes back - move her somewhere else). Give her a high 5 or a side hug. Put her arms around your neck gently. Add to the sexual tension. Two steps forward, one step back. For every two steps you escalate, you take one step back to keep up the tension & keep her wanting more - rather than her rejecting your escalation. You slow it down yourself so she doesn’t have to, which is much sexier.
Escalate the conversation & the emotions, you first though. Be vulnerable and talk about the things you’re passionate, excited or interested in. Then ask her about the same thing for her. Get her talking about it and building on it, then ask her about her dreams in the future. Role play some fun thing about what you guys would do together in the future.

Do all of this in fun and good humour - it’s more important to amuse yourself and have fun on your own terms while moving forward with her than to get everything correct. But always continue moving her.

Hope this helps mate

Neo-Rio · 2022-10-30T06:54:24+00:00

If a hooker off the street invited you back to her brothel, and you went with her, what things do you expect are going to happen? ... I would think that sex for money would be completely on the cards.

It's the same with women when you just invite them back to your place. If they seem keen enough they'll go with you, and they'll be fully aware of what they're getting themselves into when they're alone and at your place - especially if you've warmed them up a bit with flirtatious behavior and conversation. In fact, in most cases, they're expecting something to happen and will be upset if it doesn't!!

It's perfectly fine to ignore any and all relationships in your 20s, and I would continue to maintain that well into your 40s. Relationships - as defined by women - don't and won't really serve men at all. If a woman wants to imagine herself being in a relationship as part of her process of getting horny, then let her. (I draw the line at marriage talk though). Otherwise establish the the relationship is that she calls you if she wants to come see you at your place and to see if you are available. Of course the subtext is that she only ever comes over for sex - but you don't say that of course.

Remember, when you just want to have a lot of sex as a man, you need to present yourself as a manwhore who is in the female fantasy generation business. This understanding should not only drive your behaviours and responses, but how you deal with things when they don't work out (which they will often). Women seek these guys out for casual hookups, but want to maintain discretion and also the illusion that she's the only woman in your world.

Once you juggle about 5+ girlfriends, regulars, and ONS at once - having sex multiple times with different girls in the same 24 hours, you will definitely feel like a whore whose only purpose is to satisfy women. After that point you might get sick of it..., or not... :)

LestealthX · 2022-10-30T10:28:27+00:00

Hold up.. What do you mean by d*ck exercise?

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-10-30T09:36:23+00:00

Just make her game you. Never ever say that out loud pls. Girls are wanna fuck as well, they like it probably more than you but they don't wanna appear slutty and their friends and they don't wanna be judged by you or any others so if you make sure that you're not judgemental she's being slutty around you, you're already attractive and you have attractive traits, you qualify her so you pay attention to her and tell that why shes good or special or more than other girls and there's no possible downside of sleeping with you she probably will

epimpstyle · 2022-10-30T11:48:22+00:00

Why does Mystery wrote about KINO in his books?

You must touch the girl to see if she feels comfortable with your presence or not. Initially you touch her by mistake then if you see that everything is ok, you will continue further until the point when you can place your arm over her waist. You can't take her in your bed if she does not want you to touch her.

YJeeper456 · 2022-10-30T20:11:15+00:00

Just be fun to be around and somewhat spontaneous, it will be easy to gain their attention if it seems you don’t need it.

Eye contact, compliment her appearance, a couple little touches. Now you could be making out in the bar, ask her what she’s up to later or get her number and make plans for next day.

Don’t be afraid to play a little long game either, letting tension build with someone you see regularly at the bars can feel so damn good when it’s finally released. And when you do finally get her all the way home, make sure you haven’t done too much drugs/alcohol so your dick still works.

HomeschoolProm · 2022-10-30T22:50:36+00:00

What uhhh what sort of exercises?

RedditsOlderBrah · 2022-10-30T04:56:50+00:00

She knows you want to fuck her. She does not want to fuck you. Work on that.

Apprehensive-Day6620 · 2022-10-30T17:22:53+00:00

“Dick exercises” dude wtf is wrong with you in the head

g3wb3r · 2022-10-30T05:19:27+00:00

ditch the accutane (will cause longterm health issues) and use sun tanning instead to clear skin .. if no sun go to tanning bed regularly

you plant the idea by saying to her exactly what you quoted in your post ... simple right?

Ill_Asparagus8203 · 2022-10-30T05:42:13+00:00

“Hey, let’s get outta here.” And then you go to your place.

Start talking about a funny show or movie. “Hey, let’s get outta here and check it out, it’ll be hilarious.” And take her to your place.

Start making out with her in the bar. “Let’s get outta here and do this somewhere more private.”

You’re talking about the drinks not being that good. “Hey, let’s get outta here, I’m going to make you the best drink you ever had.”

You’re dancing with her and making out a little. “Oh you like me moves - let’s get outta here, I’ll show you some moves only available in a private viewing.” And take her to your place.

Feed me a scenario and I’ll get you out of there. Read Chase Amante’s stuff about “moving the girl.” From place to place. When she commits to moving with you across the room to maybe moving with you to another bar, she’ll agree to commit to move with you to your place.

Title	strongest, highest success rate for initiation/escalation?
Author	Ill_Asparagus8203
Upvotes	35
Comments	36
Date	October 30, 2022 4:46 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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