Share your experiences reconnecting with a woman that said they only wanted to be friends

Lucazzz14 · 2022-10-18T21:36:22+00:00

I asked girls out, they wanted to be friends:

Most of them I didn't talk to again and moved on.

A handful of girls, we genuinely became friends and are chill. No drama. Removed all romantic interest and dated others.

If you're expecting that kind of thing from the movies, it probably won't work. I only say this so you don't potentially waste time.

The "friend" route is also disingenuous.

Therocksays2020 · 2022-10-18T21:37:01+00:00

You can’t get your hopes up here. There is an extremely high chance you’re still in the friend zone.

You have to be direct what you want. Ask her on a date and go from there. My current fwb initially friend zoned me but I invited her over and she knew what was going to happen between us.

If you do the lame “let’s hang out as friends” that’s exactly where you’ll stay

Neo-Rio · 2022-10-19T00:14:24+00:00

Being a friend is basically her saying "I want to drain you of emotional attention like a vampire and give nothing of value to you in return"

It's actually insulting, but she's probably young and doesn't understand. I've heard excuses like : "I don't want to have sex in case it ruins the friendship" - which is nonsense

You just tell her "As soon as one of us is having sex with another person, we're not really going to have any relationship anymore, not even friends. We won't have time to see each other, and I'll probably never see you again. I like you, but it's up to you: if you value having something - anything - with me at all, then you know what needs to happen."

... or you know, you could serenade her with "More than words" by extreme, but you get my point.

Thing is, you should already be having sex with other women to make her friend request pointless anyway.

2022-10-19T00:41:39+00:00

Every time a woman says she wants to be friends, it’s just her way of saying she isn’t interested.

Boethiah18 · 2022-10-19T01:50:24+00:00

Honest bro getting out of the friendzone is tough, you'll either need really good game or improve yourself physically or provide something to her that will turn the tables. If you're basically the same dude you were when you were friendzoned chances are you're staying there.

atomant88 · 2022-10-19T06:35:35+00:00

what does this have to do with pickup?

Title	Share your experiences reconnecting with a woman that said they only wanted to be friends
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Date	October 18, 2022 9:22 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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