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[–]Canadian-Seductioner 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Are you talking about a girl or a guy? You keep switching pronouns.
Regardless, you got way too invested in this person. Spamming them with messages when they weren't even opening them? Sending them flowers anonymously? Cringe bro, you became a simp for someone who completely ignored you.
Next time, if the person doesn't respond to your initial opener, forget about them and move on. Doesn't matter how "high value" they are.
[–]gillmanblacklagooner 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He mentions Southern Hemisphere. So we can think about a lot of non-English speaking countries. We can understand his typing.
[–]Canadian-Seductioner 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't think I've ever seen someone switch between pronouns as much as OP did, regardless of where they're from.
[–]Luckygodesc 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sorry, much of the text body I did in google.
Still I don't expect you to give me a consolation.
[–]Canadian-Seductioner 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh okay yeah it makes sense now.
[–]RedditsOlderBrah 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
had a strong connection
no you didn't. you didn't even know her name. absolutely everything you said and did here was creep shit.
you made a woman you do not know feel extremely uncomfortable and the fact that you're feeling fine instead of ashamed is very telling.
i can't really verbalise how much i hate this.
[–]Luckygodesc 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The landscape is much different than you think. Although they mentioned that it was toxic, it is true.
And you don't understand connection if the same thing never happened to you.
[–]RedditsOlderBrah -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
what you did is very nearly enough to merit a restraining order. you are going to be in trouble with police if you keep this shit up.
[–]Luckygodesc 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for your feedback as well.
[–]SabeW 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Little mistakes? Never let yourself get carried away? You stalked her and gave her flowers. I thought I was reading from r/niceguys. No wonder you're used to rejection if this is how you act. Leave her alone and be better.
My game improved from what it was before, I never ran into a girl that I liked so much and started the game.
Thanks for the final advice.
[–]SabeW 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What did you learn from the comments?
[–]Luckygodesc 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
1- First of all, approaching under sentimental emotions can be dangerous.
2-Checking their twitter and trying to play with that information can be immoral.
3-The first approach at least I would have talked to her, at least say something (the game loses value if you start on social networks)
4-calculate better the initial opener.
5- The interest she gives is reflected in the reciprocity.
I have to admit that it may be one of my best life lessons.
[–]Aris3048 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If this was 1850 this shit would be very romantic. In a modern context it's toxic and creepy and you should stop being a weirdo.
Mention why you think it was creepy
[–]gillmanblacklagooner 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe in 2202AC it can be seen as a romantic act again but in 2022… 🚩🚩🚩🚩
[–]intensely_human 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What the fuck are you talking about? Wait until you come down to post please.
[–]dump_fool 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
What is "high value"? A girl that looks 10 times more beautiful than you?
What is "strong connection"? LTE/5G?
I couldn't ask her name
What could you do? Could you at least blurt a word? Besides stalking her?
I evaluate high value girl as someone beautiful and also internally developed, as well as make you grow. That's why the ","
Strong connection with looks.
The part about checking your twitter, is stalker. But I don't consider that she was stalking her.
[–]gillmanblacklagooner 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
1) How did you manage to find a random festival girl on Instagram?
2) Somethings belong to the moment: another day, another vibe. Don’t take it personal.
3) Note that way before your stalk, she had already made her point and set her mood. You had your answer since day 1.
4) Anonymous gifts are kinda dangerous I think… maybe she’s into another man, ask him so he can easily say “Oh, yeah! It was me!”…
5) If she’s into, she’s into. This girl was very clear about her points there. She wasn’t interest and that’s completely ok.
6) Move on, dude.
7) I really appreciate you put “” in “high value” because this kind of label is lame… internet stuff for fucked up ones glued to their social media…
1- In the comments of the festival page.
2- You are right, I understand this law.
3-I perceived unclear signals, I was determined to move forward.
4-Okay, it was the first time I sent someone flowers.
5- I respect your decision not to want
6- thanks
7-I know it's a stupid term, but you get the point.
[–]dobbs1997 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
what makes this person “high value” ?
[–]Bessiejaker420 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A festival you say? Drugs must of been that good!
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