I have a girl over my home right now who is withholding sex what to do? [recovered]

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may-begin-now · 2022-08-20T06:02:28+00:00

Remember she don't owe you sex , stay calm don't let ya hard on take control, that's being needy.

atomant88 · 2022-08-20T05:59:55+00:00

Could you be any more entitled?

necriel · 2022-08-20T06:42:26+00:00

If she isn't going along with escalation, then you haven't properly evoked attraction. This is on you, not her. She doesn't owe you anything, no matter what actions happened before. Generally speaking, women do not withhold sex. Men fail to evoke sexual attraction. It really is that simple.

The sooner you lose any sense of entitlement and the desperation it comes with, the sooner you will be able to actually evoke some attraction

Beneficial-Balance92 · 2022-08-20T06:51:21+00:00

Haha bro you are out of your mind if you think it’s that easy. Are you guys connecting when you hang out? Try spending at least 4 hours looking into her eyes and having a fun, entertaining conversation about life and your experiences and her life and her experiences before you even touch her. Make her laugh so loud that she sounds crazy. If you can’t make her laugh you ain’t getting no pussy.

I guarantee you she will want you inside her if you just make her feel good before you even touch her.

Otava_avatO · 2022-08-20T07:40:11+00:00

You're fucking pissed for not getting laid, could you truly be any more entitled or a man baby? You sound like a rapist and a wife beater and maybe she started sensing that, now let that sink in. Women. Don't. Own. You. Shit. Remember that.

tirednobody · 2022-08-20T08:46:53+00:00

uh, sounds like you have no game or charm and just want to extract sex from her. She can probably pick up on that. How can she withhold something she's never given to you? You aren't entitled to it. Sounds more like you are being pushy / rushing and she probably wants romance and to feel special

texaspete3 · 2022-08-20T12:14:58+00:00

oh lordy where to begin.

No one can withhold sex. You are not entitled to sex. Sex is an act that takes two to tango. If she is gving you blue balls simply let her know that you have other women that can take care of your needs and drop her off . ANything else and you will come off as an afc.

anicknameyo · 2022-08-20T12:58:26+00:00

"That other bullshit".. No wonder some women are cautious, they don't wanna be treated as sex dolls and then thrown away. It's just as if she got her food paid and then walks away. You both have clearly different expectations. Be honest with your intentions and choose women, who are ok with escalating quickly. And don't feel entitled to sex, you don't owe that shit to anyone

Repulsive-Fee393 · 2022-08-20T12:30:28+00:00

Time for the old switcheroo, bust out your laptop and start doing some work and ignore her ass.

naughtyboy206 · 2022-08-20T08:27:52+00:00

Fuck these people. If you make your intentions clear and she isn’t interested send her on her way. You aren’t being entitled, you not simping and you are valuing what you want

Plenty_Software4415 · 2022-08-20T12:59:29+00:00

Bro ima give you some real advice, all these other guys are on some women pedestal shit; While you are not entitled to her body, she is not entitled to your time. If she’s on some funny shit, get funny lol. My friend will have one of us call him for an emergency which will make him & her have to leave. Try this, say you gotta go for something. You don’t have to stay there if you don’t want to, same way she doesn’t. It goes both ways.

Plenty_Software4415 · 2022-08-20T13:05:26+00:00

This guy wanted legit advice, not a bunch of people calling him an entitled misogynist.. he could’ve went anywhere else online for that.

Then again, you need real life men to give the advice OP is looking for, not many of us go online commenting on posts

Objective_Sky_6136 · 2022-08-20T06:01:20+00:00

Don't stress it man. More importantly, don't let her see that you're bothered. If she's staying the weekend she'll give it up tm, just play it cool. Chances are she likes you but doesn't want to come off as a heaux. If you like her, I'd take it as a positive. If you're just trying to hit, patience.

cobraCL · 2022-08-20T19:44:22+00:00

You don't want the same things, clearly.

Sweaty_Literature_69 · 2022-08-21T01:37:11+00:00

tell her to leave

Title	I have a girl over my home right now who is withholding sex what to do? [recovered]
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Date	August 20, 2022 5:47 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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