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[–]Contango6969 13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why would you assume anyone knows what a satisfyer is
[–]ReorgAtty 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol
[–]CanUnusual8729 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Not at all. Ask her to let you use it on her
[–]DGS_Cass3636 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Luckily that’s what we’re planning on doing. I’m hoping everything will be fine, but I was just slightly worried about what would happen
[–]CanUnusual8729 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Nah don’t be. It’s apples and oranges. You’re not in competition with a piece of plastic
[–]bradyb8 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I completely agree. At first I was also a little worried about the competition and being able to live up to what the toy can make happen. But it’s not comparable really, as they are more two different sensations that stand different purposes, and using both you and it together can lead to some amazing results
[–]CanUnusual8729 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I mean just think about it from your perspective. Would you rather have a fleshlight or a real girl?
[–]thatshinobiboiii 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Research how to do it and communicate with her so you know what makes her feel good with it
[–]bradyb8 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So by satisfyer, I assume you mean the toy that vibrates and has the round hole that basically sucks on the clit. I have something very similar, the rose toy, and I will say from experience it has definitely spiced things up. My girl loves taking an “intermission” when I am edging myself and am close and can’t continue much longer. I have seen people before concerned about feeling like it becomes a competition, but I would say it is more just a sidekick. The satisfyer/rose toy both work in the same way, but the satisfyer i would say is better and higher quality. And the rose toy makes my girl cum in less than a minute after I start using it. So if you take the intermission, let her cum first, then they are ready for you to finish after with more intercoure (since it does make the clit sensitive just from the pressure, and intercourse is just like frosting on the cake), and my girl loves it honestly. I’ll add that it probably shouldn’t be used every time just so that it doesn’t become repetitive, but I would definitely recommend using it as a little intermission when you get close to climax and it allows her to reach that and prolongs your ability.
[–]redjellybean1 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
What are you worried about specifically? It’s not like she will leave you for a sex toy. Let her have her fun with it, get used to what she likes. Then maybe introduce the toy into your sex lives together. Or even tell her how turned on you are thinking about her using it while you are in a different room. Depends how sexually open you both are and your communication.
[–]DGS_Cass3636 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I’m really willing to introduce it into our sex life together, but i feel like she might even prefer that thing to having regular sex, maybe reducing our frequency even more. Or could it go the complete other way and increase it?
[–]redjellybean1 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Women don’t really chose between a sex toy and sex. We like both. The ability to quickly get off when we have free time. And the intimacy that comes with sex. I have a favourite that is my go to toy that works quickly but I also love the intimacy of sex with someone too. It’s not a one or the other kind of choice. If you initiate sex, I highly doubt she will respond that she’d rather just use her satisfyer. If that’s the case, I’d be rethinking the relationship. Just let her explore.
[–]DGS_Cass3636 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Allright thank you. I’ll see what happens. This really helps!
[–]redjellybean1 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Good luck. Bringing toys into your relationship is a whole lot of experimenting and a whole lot of fun. I’ve never understood when people get jealous of using toys during sex if it enhances it for your partner. If she’s having better orgasms with the use of aids during sex, I only see this as a positive. Good luck.
[–]DGS_Cass3636 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I’m really curious.
I’m usually the person to initiate, and it’s thesame most of the time Before she was aware that she could win it, we talked about possibly spicing things up. We’re going on a holiday to a remote area, and I’d love to try things like; forest, outdoor, lakes etc. (It was through text, but still we knew what we both ment)
She was excited to try things as well, and I’m curious to see what’ll happen soon (Sorry if any grammar mistakes btw. I’m not English so I’m trying my best xD)
[–]DGS_Cass3636 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And the thing was, we didn’t have any sex this year until the end of June, because she had pain when I entered. (I’m not the smallest down there so that doesn’t help)
But also a lot of the time she just didn’t feel like it because of her pill, so I’m hoping that might change with the thing, or change overall
[–]simplyaguyonline 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean, she likes you right? Like as a person?
Cause if someone cares about another person, they probs like to see you happy. Especially if you're nurturing each other and growing together. If so, then yall should want to share each other. I think this would be an enhancer, yeah there is potential for addiction, (just like you watched too much porn, right?) so just trust that she can handle that, and if not, voice your opinion and try to work through it. But if she's healthy, it should be an issue.
[–]BreakDance4cash 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Let her use it on you to spice things up 😏
[–]Fabulous-Living1889 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I dunno man, the bars going to be set high…. Hard to compete against 19,000RPM with 2 inches.
[–]foziw1 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I fix it: I am worried with my gf since I recognized I wasn't having sex with her frequently
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